How do I get revenge....legally?

Question

a girl text my boyf of 5 years asking for a S**g. She knows about me and that we have a son together. Apparently this girl has a serious facial hair problem, hairy arms and on the chubby side. I know he's not interested and would never cheat, but this girl has infuriated me and I never recieved an apology from her when she i spoke to her on the phone. She works with my boyf so I dont want to cause him any trouble. But I need her to know that I am not a force to be reckoned with and she cant get away with it lightly.

Any advice and ideas will be appreciated
xx

ok just so u know, he works with her, thats why she has his number, I am not insecure in this relationship as we are getting married, I do not need to grow up and be mature about anything as I spend my entire waking day being mature, I just wanted to have a bit of fun, but some people take things way too seriously and have to take all the fun out of life!!

Answer 1

Put a personal ad in your local newspaper stating something like: "Bisexual woman looking for a good time. Very experienced and free most nights. No limits, I'll be your fantasy." Don't forget to include her phone number in the advert.

If this works correctly she should get some responses. If she is desperate enough to try and poach an almost married man, then she should try to hook up with some of people who reply. If she is as hideous as you make her out to be then she will experience face to face rejection. That should bring her down a peg or two.

This worked really well for my sister last year. The wh*re who was trying to steal her fiance (now her husband) had a nervous breakdown, and ended up on anti-depressants. My brother in law just thinks she's a pathetic sl*t. Even now she hardly leaves the house.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

The need and desire for revenge is not a good thing and not something to be proud of. It shows great immaturity. Be a lady, not a bully. You can't spend your life beating off people with a stick. Get over it. The internal stress you cause yourself is far more damaging than what you could legally do to another. Think about that. She got you once, and she's getting you twice and you're doing it for her. You need anger management and you need to grow up, mature and settle down. Things like this will come up from time to time throughout your life. You're working harder on being a thug than a lady.

Answer 3

I really think the best way to deal with such a thing is to ignore it and not to take revenge. That girl is perhaps just trying her luck and since your b/f is not interested, you shouldn't get too upset. Do you know when you are so troubled by negative feelings just because someone says something stupid, you are punishing no one but yourself? Just remember, anger solves no problem but creates more trouble in your heart and more lines on your face. The best policy is to forget about it and be grateful that you've got this desirable and loyal man and a precious little boy.

Also, remember sueing someone is a verycostly, time-consuming and stressful thing. Is it worth the trouble if all she did was just to text him? Think of all the money you could save by ignoring this girl and you will think differently.

Answer 4

If you know that she has all these problems with her looks then you could if you feel that you have to get revenge by walking up to her and saying " dear I am so sorry that you are having such a problem finding a man to please you-but with what he has at home there is no room for you in our lives!" then just walk away that should do it! Now be smiling at her and don't get in a fuss or fight -show compassion that she had to sink so low! You could do that by sending her a small vase of flowers where she works with a note!

Answer 5

Revenge is never a good idea and she did only text him. We've all sent drunken texts for a laugh or in error. How did she get the text number in the first place? Or maybe she is just trying to get a reaction out of you?

if i was you, just get on with your life with your husband and son. don't let someone get in the way of that, you need to be the better person in all this.

Answer 6

This is very thin ice, so tread lightly. Even though you have a right to be angry, if you overreact your boyfriend might start feeling like he's your property, and take it the wrong way. The best thing to do is have faith in your relationship and ignore it. It sounds like she's on a completely different level, so don't sink down to it!

Answer 7

Good things are to come to you so keep your head up! My heart really goes out to and your family but I don't think that you need her in your life after the way she treated you. You deserve to be with someone that will love and respect you. Even if she comes back to you can you really trust her? Move on and find someone better!

Answer 8

The revenge is NOT to put yourself on her level.. Its childish to play word games, and set some one up for what??? If you carry yourself as a Lady, that will show more class than acting like a complete fool.. Show her your better than that, she won't have anything to act over because you STOPPED fueling the drama.

Answer 9

Public embarass her by giving her some sort of hair removal device in front of your boyfriend...even better would be to mention that he noticed she had a problem with facial hair.

It won't make his working life any easier not matter what you do though.

Answer 10

best revenge..your marrying him aint you,thats enough..& even though they work together it still dont make sense that she has his number & how do u know she is fat & hairy ur bf might just be saying that to make u think he is telling the truth..ur bf had to have given her his number why would he want a minging girl to have it,hmmmm I wouldnt let him off lightly either.