Well about 6 months ago i met this guy and yes i've only met him once and never saw him again but he asked for my number so i gave it to him. Well the only reason why i gave him my number was becasue I am in love with another guy but im trying to get over him because hes in love with another girl. I felt very guilty talking to this other guy with someone else in mind. So yesterday i texted him and told him the truth. I told him that i liked another guy and i felt bad talking to him. Well this guy took it really hard. He was telling me that i was just like every other girl and he started to curse the heck out of me! But i felt there was nothing wrong with telling him the truth. Well i told him never to cal or text me again and to delete my number. He said he didnt care or "give a damn". Well what do ya know? He called me again today. Ofcurse I didnt pick up, but should i call him just to ask what he wants? Or should i just forget about it altogether?
2006-09-30 11:26:29 · 5 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
forget about it all together. because if you call him back and talk to him he will think you still like him and you dont know what direction to go so he will play with your feelings untill you will just forget about the other guy you like. just move on with your life and he will stop calling and move on himself because he will see that you meant it and you dont want to be bothered by him and he will get it.. and know your not interested. its the only way if you call him back.. then you have to do it all over again. dont get him to think you still like him if you dont. it shouldnt matter to you if he called.. unless you like him and do want to call him back. but seriously take my advise. I learned my lesson.. a couple of times. they never go away after you give them the slip and then take it back.., lol. it never ends good just head aches.
and dont be friends with him. he will think theres still hope. havent you heard of the saying.> never just friends.. always something more.. unless you dont become friends at all. then you dont give him false-hope.
2006-09-30 11:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is definitley something wrong with guy and
I'd stop it right now. Evidently he has had a lot of
problems dealing with women and they probably got to know him better and may have broken it off.
It sounds like an abuser mentally and usually physical abuse is not too far from it. I'd call him
and tell him not to call anymore or he could face
the consequences of having an harrassment charge put on him. I wish you luck.
2006-09-30 11:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Catswoman1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD CALL HIM BACK and tell him you are sorry for hurting him and you didnt mean to hurt him but you wanted to let him know how you really felt and if you want to be friends with him just ask if you all could be only friends .sounds to me maybe he is calling you to tell you sorry for what he did and said who really knows but all you can do is call and find out good luck
2006-09-30 11:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Christine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should text him,and apologize, and tell him that you just want to be friends. Then after you text him(if he texts you back)you should call him.
2006-09-30 11:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by osembob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it. sounds like a loser.
2006-09-30 11:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatelovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋