A few weeks ago I met a man I find very attractive, and he said he's interested in me. However, we haven't done anything because he's in a five year relationship. Yesterday he told me his partner was upset about how much time we're spending together, so he told his partner he had recruited me to form a sexual threesome with them. I don't know what to do: I don't find his partner attractive and I don't want a threesome, but I sure like him.
2006-09-30 11:22:08 · 8 answers · asked by marie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You don't have to do anything sexual that you don't want to do. It sounds like your friend made up the threesome story to avoid trouble with his partner. The fact that he failed to ask you if you wanted a threesome is not a good sign. It suggests he didn't consider the effect of his lie on you. You are under no obligation to go along with a threesome if you don't want to participate: after all, he didn't ask you what you wanted. I hope you will take care of yourself and base your decision on your desires and feelings. And whenever you are sexual, do remember to use safer sex practices.
2006-09-30 11:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Markin Gomez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice you could adhere to in this situation is to "RUN Like Hell IN THE OTHER DIRECTION" ,,,,,, If this guy is attracted to you then you could certainly find some one else that could feel the same way about you but with out flaws like that in his character ,,,,, Besides ,,,,, If he has a girlfriend already and is willing to do this to her ,,,,, then where does that leave you but to look like a fool and a heel ,,,, ? I hope you aren't into the sexual slave thing ,,,,,,
2006-09-30 18:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are not into swinging, swapping, or multiple partner sex... walk away. If he used the term "recruit" walk away.
If you are willing to give up your self worth & self respect and are willing to allow some smooth talking guy who obviously is not interested in your feelings to use you .....then go for it.
It is ultimately your decsion.
2006-09-30 18:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part of being grown is not doing any sexual act you feel uncomfortable with...Mother Nature gives us instinct for a reason----use it!
2006-09-30 18:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by mybootyisthatbig79 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to move on to a man with whom you can be exclusive and can call yourselves a twosome.
2006-09-30 18:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run very fast and very far away from these 2.
2006-09-30 18:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no you should never share a guy with a nother gurl either do it with out his gurl or go find someone else
2006-09-30 18:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by u_juss_wish_2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO ANYTHING JUST STOP YOU FRIENDSHIP WITH HIM
2006-09-30 18:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by chuco 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋