It's hard having not to be able to talk to somebody. When everyone is mad at you. For instance...say that well, I was bad person. I'd rather not speak of what happend. But one thing I would like to say is how do you forgive somebody who won't talk to you? It's hard I know. I am crying right know. But I really need somebody's oppinion.
Signed,
Unforgettable.
2006-09-30 10:58:32 · 13 answers · asked by The Pretty One! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unforgettable or unforgivable which are you the abuser or the victim? No one is born a bad person. Bad behavior is taught and learned over a period of time. Only you are responsible for how you handle the decision put before you. everyone is taught right from wrong weather it be from parents, friends, churches. schools whatever we all eventually understand that action to behavior is ours. To be forgiven you first have to forgive yourself, then you must regain the faith of the person forgiving by behaving in a genuine, sincere manner. Change around you comes from change within. Don't sit and wallow Show that you really want to resolve this.
2006-09-30 11:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seperate who you are from what you do. You are saying that you are a bad person. That in fact is not true. What you did may have made someone angry. You can't change who you are but you can change what you do (your behavior) There is a big difference. This is one of the primary reasons so many people are shame based.
There is some good advice in some of the earlier answers. You cannot control how someone will react if you apologize for what you did. Don't ever apologize for who you are. If they won't forgive you then maybe you don't need them in your life. Find people that accept you for who you are.
2006-09-30 11:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tetonka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes mad at u now or he so just wait for some time give her time she understand and she would realize her mistake is she don't u forgive her then god would see on judgement day any ways the good way is go far away from her for now don't go too far mean don't go closer to her when she is on the way or streets just keep at a look at her in a sad mood she would realize u r sorry to her or him hope u got my answer and wish she or he come to u again
2006-09-30 12:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mr.Philosopher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should be the one asking for forgiveness. Apologize and then give them some time to get over it, if they love you they will talk to you again.
2006-09-30 11:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jaded_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People dont ahve to talk 2 u ... 4 u 2 4give them...
Try It
Dr Bad
2006-09-30 11:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiey don't worry. go up to that person and say something like" look i know you don't want to talk to me but im really sorry for i did in the past. i really hope you can forgive me and talk to me so we can sort through our troubles. once again im sorry." and if she starts to walk away say like, listen i want you to hear me out. please.i want to tell you something that i always longed to say. good luck.
2006-09-30 11:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
admitting ur mistakes to the other people openly will be the right thing to do. not to get anyone back but to be right within urself and to the others.don;t expect them to do the same. just confess.
2006-09-30 11:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by lina l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them that always worked for me when i did some illegial things i told my bff and she helped me stop all u have to do is talk to them even if you have stopped tell them that you know that is was wrong and please forgive you and they may need some time so dont hound them
2006-09-30 11:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are somethings that is unforgivable by man, but not by god.be honest with your feeling, and tell them why, it happen, what ever it is.just saying i am sorry sometime don't get it.
2006-09-30 11:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by queenmidas1014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋