my lil cousin is almost 5 and knows what sex and humping is. im 10 and she tries to hump me and stuff. i think she walked in on her parents but im starting to get worried. i don't wanna tell her parents because my cousin said (she's almost 9) her and the 5 year old humped each other before and i don't wanna get her in trouble too. what should i do?
2006-09-30 10:23:17 · 15 answers · asked by blackgurl52@yahoo.com 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i know she was walked in because she says, "Wanna play mommy and daddy?" and she could just say, "Wann do something fun so she knows only mom and dad are supposed to do it
2006-09-30 10:32:36 · update #1
she also has a 2yr old cousin and im scared she'll purposely invite her/accidently shower her to it.
2006-09-30 10:33:23 · update #2
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You should really just ignore it, When he/she asks "the question", It's best to tell her that when she gets older she'll find out, Or just change the subject when that comes up, or just make something up, Like... "It's like smoking (if she/he knows what that is) Don't do it until you are privilaged, When you will when you're older, Like 27ish."
She/He'll understand.
2006-09-30 10:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
You should DEFINITELY tell her parents! Don't get me wrong, it is quite normal for children to engage in sexual play-but to a point...your cousin is quite young to know any of that stuff...Even if you don't feel comfy enough to talk to her parents, tell another close adult. It could be that someone-even one of your older cousins-has touched her or showed her things she shouldn't be experiencing at her age...please tell an adult ASAP-you may be saving your lil cousin from pain in the long run...
2006-09-30 10:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by mybootyisthatbig79 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to someone about it an adult but that is your call whether or not you tell it will most likely come out in public and then someone will say why didn't you say something before?
2006-09-30 10:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by defendernnc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was 7, my "Friend" (also 7) had sex with her cousin and I told... I was horrified when i heard what they did, (at that time i knew what it was), But she was sad.. Now she still get upset if anyone says anything about it.. but they didnt know any better... Its still really disgusting though.. tell... before ANYTHING really serious like that happens... And now if anyone asks her, (Or him), they lost their virginities at 16 like eveyone else, and to different people...
2006-09-30 10:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by coca_cola_froggy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents theyll help a lot and do what is right i dont know your fam or know what happened so cant tell what the right thing to do would be except for telling your parents
2006-09-30 11:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Linda Lou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents need to know about this so that they can instruct her on proper behavior. Otherwise she is a definite candidate for molestation and none of us want that for her.
2006-09-30 10:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. This is something they really need to know.
2006-09-30 10:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rosey55 D 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your parents. This little child is vulnerable, and could easily end up being abused. Would you want that?
2006-09-30 10:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your parents now! this behaivor is not normal she didnt learn all this from walking in on someone! she could be getting hurt you have to tell somebody! i would tell your parents first not hers
2006-09-30 23:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by amber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ur parents or an older cousin
2006-09-30 10:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definately tell your parents! and her parents too!! that is DEFINATELY NOT something for a 5 year old to know!!
2006-09-30 10:26:39 · answer #11 · answered by Hermione G. 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋