well my fiance i found out he's been cheating on me and other **** and i broke up with him and he didn't seem to care at all which also leads to another sign that he was probably cheating.i never actually caught him but i know he probably was because everytime we were talking over the phone he said that hold on my mother is calling and he then come back and say sorry that was my best friend who was calling so i had to talk to him.I was like ok whatever.then today i dumped him and he was like didn't even care feelings at all.i'm like not myself at all i'm too quiet we've been fighting alot lately...but i've done everything for his asshole self and now he wants to treat me like this and so i'm like forget it.now my long time best friend for five years wants to date me but he knows i just dumped someone i really cared about and he knows how i am acting now but he lives all the way in maryland and i'm here in florida but he's willing to come down here as soon as he saves up.what should ido
2006-09-30 10:18:26 · 3 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we've dated for over six months now and the my best friend and i known each other for five years should i go with him since he obviously knows how to treat me with respect and other stuff?
2006-09-30 10:19:22 · update #1
Get your mind clear, and out of this messy situation. Take time for a breather, and refresh yourself. Pamper yourself. Don't entertain any romantic notions for the moment. There is a whole new exciting world to explore. don't close your eyes or wear blinkers, with only these two people on your vision field. Help yourself. You are the master of yourself. No one should do humiliating things to you.
2006-09-30 11:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop. First get all feelings good or bad OUT OF YOU for this guy you just dumped. The WORST thing is to jump right into another relationship. People do it all the time. MOSTLY girls, because they hate being alone. Trust me. Don't make another commitment to another guy until you give yourself TIME to settle inside, and grow from what just happened. It makes you see way, way, wayyyy more clearly. If your friend for 5 years really is the one for you, he'll be there when you're ready.
2006-09-30 10:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by waawaazzzzat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yea dude if i were you i would because that way you will be happy with someone else and not be thinking about wat that other asshole did to you. but only go out with him if you have feeling for him.
2006-09-30 10:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by THE MOTHERFUCKING PRINCESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋