How to talk to this girl?

Question

It was the 2nd day of school, and this regular average looking girl comes up to me and askes me to be friends.. i said 'whatever, i dont care'

then she asked for my #, i told her to give hers to me instead. and finally she asked to get something to eat after school, i said 'no, i have better things to do'

we didnt & still havent talked since then (about 2 months).. she didn't meet my 3 criterias i wanted in a girl at that time :

1.a girl who wears Lacoste shirts with collars popped up
2. a girl who wears large belts 2.25-4 inches above the hip
3.a girl with blond hair blue eyes

but then yesterday.. everything changed. I saw her wear a pink Lacoste shirt with the collars popped up and I fell in love with her. she has dyed black hair with natural blond streaks (which i dont prefer), but i know we can make it if we try.


How should i approach her? i have her # but somethin inside tells me its too late to call her.. what would u do?

i dont prefer the dyed black hair - that is.

Answer 1

you were a bit rude but if you really think it'll work you should ease on up to asking her out just start by saying hi in the halls and then start a conversation and then act as charming as you possibly can once you think she likes you ask. If you realize you don't like her be her friend she can't be that bad can she.

Answer 2

There is absolutely no reason that a perfect man like yourself should have to compromise. Buy her some blonde hair dye and give to her as a present. Let her know that you would be willing to "be seen with her" if she would meet your three criteria. Do not under any circumstances, negotiate the three criteria or change your standards. Hang tough!!!

Taking this approach will give you plenty of time on Saturday and Friday nights to stay home (alone), hit the books hard and bring those grades up. Good Luck!

Answer 3

There is absolutely nothing in this world more beautiful than a girl wearing Lacoste with the collars up. I have almost the exact same criterias. Except I only date Dark black hair girls with green eyes.

You need to strategize.. and follow these methods and alter them as you see fit.
MISSION : Bag the Girl with the Lacoste collars up

[I] Know your target's friends. Get to know them.
[II] Through her friends, try to get to know her. The next time u see her, tell her a slick line like "I'm sorry for being so mean before, but your face reminded me of a girl I had just broke up with. She totally ripped out my heart, stabbed a knife in my back, and left me to bleed to death' .


[III]Accidently see her at her favorite places i.e. Lacoste stores,
[IIII] Through her friends, learn her interest, see if has a Myspace, and remember the things she likes, the music, the games, topics etc
[IIIII] Talk to her about the music, games, topics, she likes
[IIIIII] Earn her trust,
[IIIIIII]Do what you need to do and keep the Lacoste collars up

Answer 4

You dumb idiot you shouldn't of said that in the first place but sinced you asked i am gonna say that you should um letts see go up to her and be like um exscuse me hi do you remember me i am that boy from how ever long ago that was and then say that you was sorry for whatever had happened and then if she say something just be like ok know you can ask me over again what you asked me long before a while and if she don't ask then you say ok... let me refrese that um what i meant to say was that you could ask her like um hi would you like to out with me sometimes and if she say no then what you do is move on but i really hope this helps.(just remember neva say something to a girl like that or trust this situation will start all over again and this is true and this happened to me once but i didn't do nothing the boy did so jst be careful.)

Answer 5

WoW, you're easy to please!))0 i wish all the guys were like you, just get a belt, hair dye, pop up the collar and you're ready to mate like a lusting cat at the pick of the mating season!))))))0
You can give her a call, but honestly, I don't think she will enjoy your company much. Unless, she is that desperate.

Answer 6

If I were you I wouldn't even bother calling her. She is obviously too good for someone who wouldn't even get to know her because of how she dressed and her looks. There is alot more to a relationship or friendship than that. Spare her the aggravation of having a materialistic jerk of a boyfriend and go find some idiot that cares what kind of clothes you're wearing. Someday you'll grow up.

Answer 7

I think you should leave her alone. She's right. It's too late. You can't just suddenly decide that you want to be with some girl because she's wearing different clothes now. She tried to be direct with you, and you blew her off. You shouldn't get a second chance. She just wanted to be friends. You couldn't even give her a chance? Shame on you.

Answer 8

I think you should just leave her alone. You didn't give her a chance before because of how she looked. That's just not right. But to answer your question you should just go up to her and apologize for being mean to her before and just try talking to her. And if she asks why you didn't call her before then say you lost her number and if she asks why you just didn't ask for it tell her you were just too shy or something. Hope that helps but if it doesn't then you deserve it.

Answer 9

No your doin good young jedi. Blowin her off 2x was the smartest thing you could do to get it wet.

Now just say you lost her number and need it again. Get her on the date and you'll bag it the first night. If not you'll at least get head.

Answer 10

To be honest, you sound too superficial for her. You turned her down and now later on you see her wearing the right clothes and you want to get things rolling? I think you lost your chance awhile ago.