im 27 and hes 40 and we have 3 kids together and i have a fantacy to be with a woman
2006-09-30 09:42:32 · 32 answers · asked by ANNIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think most women have this curiosity. Ok, no everyone, but many do. Check out any relationships and sex forum and you'll see what I mean. I too have this fantasy, though it does usually involve men too. My partner and I share our fantasies and it makes sex much more pleasurable. Men love the thought of girl/ girl action, I wouldnt worry about it too much. Try introducing dirty talk into sex and you'll soon be onto this subject. Good Luck xxx
2006-09-30 09:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by sparkyy2k2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do real woman turn you on or is it just a fantasy? That's the first thing you might want to consider. If you are genuinely attracted to women, is this curiosity something you will feel incomplete not persuing? Would you be willing to leave your relationship for a same sex one? Are you sure this is about bi-curiosity, or could it be you are questioning your marriage?
It sounds like you already have a lot invested in this relationship. Cheating is cheating unless you both have agreed to an open relationship - that includes sex with the same sex. Figure out where you really are on this and then find the right time to talk honestly to your husband.
2006-09-30 10:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
earlier human beings get married, it might want to behoove them to seem up the words solemn and vow. if you're no longer waiting to get married, then do not, yet once you've committed to the marriage, you would possibly want to favor to furnish the former dedication challenge a touch more suitable than "almost 2 years" earlier you commence shacking up with human beings of a similar or opposite sex. so some distance as an answer for your question, attempt speaking for your husband. as well no longer being mature adequate for marriage, there must be different causes that your eyes are wandering in lower than 2 years. possibly you both can get some counseling to get your marriage again on target, if it ever develop into on target to commence with.
2016-12-04 01:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married. Bi-curious or not, being with another person intimately, is like cheating. I don't know how HE would see it, but that's how I would see it. You could always drop hints about 2 women, 1 man and see what his comments are on the subject. That would give you a better idea of how well he would deal with YOU two being in that scenario.
2006-09-30 09:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer to have a three some first. this may open the door for at least the conversation. most men would only love to hear this from thier girl! if that don't work , have an affair with another woman. you can't live inside a lie forever and the feelings won't just disappear.
2006-09-30 14:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a big age different. You just tell him. He will hopefully understand but if you want to be with a woman once you have to let him be with someone also. Just dont let your kids find out.
2006-09-30 09:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? I have a fantasy to have sex with Johnny Depp, but you know what? I won't. I am completely faithful to my husband and expect him to be that to me. Just because it is a same-sex fantasy doesn't make it right to tell your husband that you want to have sex outside of the marriage.
2006-09-30 09:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, don't tell him. If he is homophobic, DON'T tell him! Get him in a place where he will be calm. Then tell him you may be bi-curious. Tell him when he is in a good mood. You don't want to tell him something like that when he is in a bad mood.
2006-09-30 09:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of man you are dealing with but most men would probably jump on the oppurtunity of a 3-some so just tell him if you think he will be into it
2006-09-30 09:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by krystal s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you didn't know this BEFORE you got married? Good Lord!!!
Bottom line - you shouldn't be married. If you do act out this fantasy, I guarantee that it'll wreck your marriage.
Recommendation: go to http://www.adameve.com/ , get a dildo and watch a good lesbo tape.
2006-09-30 10:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋