I feel like I can never let loose and my austere nature always gets in the way.
2006-09-30 09:41:31 · 16 answers · asked by Sunnydays 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
That's probably because you make yourself that way.
2006-10-01 11:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Zoeygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some day you will be happy about the way you are. Until then do not let others tell you how to live.
Expand your definition of "austere" and relax.
2006-09-30 09:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by clophad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, too, from the time I was little. As time goes on, I'm more able to loosen up by getting into the other person. They say there are two kinds of people in this world: Those who come into a room and say, 'Look at me,' and the kind who enters a room and says, "Oh, there are are." I think it's okay to be serious, but not all the time. The sooner you quit caring what other people think, the better.
2006-09-30 09:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proud of who you are. Some people let loose too much.
Everyone is different-your nature is to be reserved and that's really cool so don,t compare yourself to anyone else just be who you are and go with it.
2006-09-30 13:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really serious all the time too...I have social anxiety and sometimes I wonder if it's not a guard that I put up so that I don't have to confront my anxiety of being around people. Since I've gone for counseling and such for it, I've found I'm much more laid back.
Not really sure if that pertains to you, but it might.
2006-09-30 09:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by katiesue883 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm that way, too.
It will go away with time. You just need to find the right people who know you, who understand you well, and who you can joke around with without feeling weird.
2006-09-30 12:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by J13891 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know but sounds like a problem. well if u have kids take 'em some place fun and have a lil fun and if u dont go with a friend or u could go alone but that wont be much fun so go with someone
2006-09-30 09:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by JesusC<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your sign Cancer?
Mine is and I am as serious as the day is long.
Don't worry though, life goes on.......keep your head up and keep smiling and everything will work its way out in the end.
2006-09-30 09:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..maybe because you're mature and stuff and that tends to make you worry about certain stuff...try to be optimistic about things and ignore paltry issues or face them calmly with thought.
2006-09-30 23:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c you use words like austere; lighten up
2006-09-30 12:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to hang out with friends,start telling them jokes,let the others get through you!
2006-09-30 09:48:37 · answer #11 · answered by celestine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋