This month has been one of the longest. Cancer in two members of my family, the death of a very old family pet, and a breakup. The first breakup. We all know what that means: heartache all around. Anyway...at the end of the month, I look back. Especially after I went out with my ex and some other friends last night.
I have to accept this - I'm not getting my boyfriend back. He sees me as an extended member of his family now. And I'm the one who has to deal with the loss since he lost the spark in the relationship at some point. Now a part of me is like, "Did every word he say about me being beautiful ever mean anything? Is it even true?" I mean, how do you feel wonderful when someone who called you his dream girl and perfect and beautiful breaks up with you?
Secondly, I'm now terrified of losing my other aging pets. How do I find a way to act "normal" so my family and friends don't think I'm always mad or depressed?
(Any stress tips for Junior year in high school are also loved.)
2006-09-30 09:36:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
God has a plan for every body. trust in Him that you and your family will find peace and stength in whatever situation you all are going through...Use this as a way to make your family closer and come together.....I know what it is like to lose a famliy pet, very sad. Time heals everything and being youn like you are you can always grow with another pet. But you will always always remember your family pet when you were young. They are always the best ever in your life. Anyway about the heartbreak......look at it on the brightside...atleast you have experience in relationships and you will be stronger. It happens and never ever push away love because you are scared of heart ache...you will mi8ss out on a lot. I'm positive he meant what he said to you, but being young every day is something new...even when you get older people are going to feel one day one way and the next another......your lucky you are young...get the experience ....you'll make smarter moves when you get older. Always always rememeber to count your blessings.....do you have a place to live, shower to get clean in, an education, people who love you.......If so, you are living anothers dream life......be thankful, pray and He will heal you and one day you will have an answer as to why yo are going through this.
2006-09-30 09:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by AUDREY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tough when you go through any break up and your not the other one so dont feel alone about that also I think a lot of us women can relate what your going through trust me he wont be the last one that will tell you that but someday you will meet and fall in love again and be with a guy that means that and will be with you for a lifetime good luck and hang in there
2006-09-30 09:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to act "normal". If you are sad please talk to someone close to you like a friend or family member. mothers always want to help their daughters so talk to your mama (i'm assuming she is not one that is sick) and I if your pets are very old then you have to face that they eventually will die. it sounds like you may be depressed so talk to someonw and try to get some help. I know it hurts that your bf broke up with you but he feels the way he feels but that does not mean that you are not beautiful and you will be someone'''s dream girl one day so don't give up hope you are still young.
2006-09-30 09:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by krystal s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you shouldn't have to act "normal" at a time like this. I know how you feel, not under those circumstances necesarrily, but I know how you feel. Writing, reading, taking a walk are good stress relievers..
2006-09-30 09:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur ex ever said "I love you" it means something but if he didn't I don't think he meant those things he said
2006-09-30 09:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋