well i have this problem at school. my boyfriend says that he likes this other "gurl" I keep on asking him who it is. My friends say if he doesn't ell me that i should dump him. Should I?
2006-09-30 09:35:52 · 23 answers · asked by beach babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ummm... dump him anyway. he likes somone else!!!!!! use your common sense!!!
2006-09-30 09:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by krystal s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumping seems kind of cruel...I would just let him know that if he likes this other "gurl" than perhaps it's better that you two become friends instead to prevent either one of you from being in an awkard position or prevent anyone from getting hurt. In time you'll find out who it is...so asking is pointless....its a true bummer for you, but its better this way to avoid the heartache later. Another theory: He may be trying to break up with you and making this other gal up as well. Either way it's clear that it's time to set this beau free and look forward to brighter days with someone who will return the "love".
2006-09-30 16:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by justwondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of coarse he wouldnt tell yu, he's afraid you'll probably go after her and kill her then dump him. But its natural for everyone to have little schoolgirl/boy crushes on other people even when theyre dating someone already. They're only human, but then of coarse if he really likes her, even more then you, dump him. But if he still likes you more don't, because it's not like he TRIED to make the moves on the other girl. But if he did more than harmless flirting with her, don't just dump him, kill him.
2006-09-30 16:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be able to tell you who.
Having feelings for someone else is normal for people of all ages. It happens because our animal instincts want us to go out and find the perfect mate to reproduce with, not be happy with.
As long as he doesn't ACT on these feelings, he's a good man. :) Still, communication and honesty - two most important things in a relationship. If you don't have that, you have no relationship. Talk to him about it some more.
2006-09-30 16:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by sakira_starwolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry he dumped you when he said he likes another girl. Find a guy who likes you.
2006-09-30 16:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not your boy friend if he likes an other girl, you have been dumped
2006-09-30 16:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD........I can't believe that your still with him,I would of dumped his a s s and move on girl you can do so much better then his stupid a s s
2006-09-30 16:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course if he is already telling you that he likes someone else please dump him and be with someone that is not looking for other people and have the nerve to tell you about it
2006-09-30 16:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he told you that he liked someone else that usually means he wants you to dump him, maybe he dont want to hurt your feelings? but i know i would dump him for sure
2006-09-30 16:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple simon says dump him or live with it. Who cares who it is it's not you. Move on !
2006-09-30 16:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by sixfootfour185 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such way of relation which is fed by jealousy is not correct and will not continue.. Be dignified and ignore him and his talking > Do not give any importance to his saying , mind your other businesses and move forward.
2006-09-30 16:42:05 · answer #11 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋