i think i am ugly, my friends tell me otherwise, but that doesnt matter. except that there is this awesome guy i really like, and i wanna ask him to hang out with me some time, but i dont know how to. he is everything i ever wanted, and we are so perfect to eachother. but i lack in self confidence, and i wanns ask him to go out or hang out or something.
anyway my point is how can i, one of the ugliest girls in the world, ask out the perfect guy?
2006-09-30 09:32:34 · 5 answers · asked by newischk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if guys dont like girls who are afraid of their low self esteme, then there is absolutely no hope for me to ever get him. he probably hates me anyway.
2006-09-30 09:47:32 · update #1
i know "everyone is beautiful" the famous quote from whatever the dudes name was, it makes me wanna puke, because he never cught a glimpse of me.
2006-09-30 09:49:23 · update #2
sorry "cught" from last addition should be "caught"
2006-09-30 09:50:46 · update #3
First, do something about your self-esteem. Since you are the only one who appears to believe herself to be "ugly," you may have a serious and self-destructive perception problem. Think about seeking professional counseling.
If your friends tell you "otherwise," they must be somewhat correct about your outward appearance. But if you prefer to sabotage yourself, then you reap only what you sow . . .
Two important points: 1) True beauty comes from within. If your heart, soul, and personality are attractive, then so are you. Please don't let your self-pity take over your true self, or you'll surely prove yourself right.
2) As for the awesome guy: once you decide to get your act together, try talking to him. Not every man is so shallow that he only responds to looks. But if this guy does, do you really want to know him? Because even the most beautiful couple can stare at each other for so long, before it becomes apparent that they need more between them (like personality, intelligence, goals, talent, creativity, love).
As long as you are reasonably groomed and confident enough to speak and make eye contact, you should make your approach. Because, as a friend once said to me, "If you aim at nothing, you definitely hit it."
Be confident. Be yourself. Be happy!
2006-09-30 09:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1st of all no guy wants to be on a date with a girl that has no self esteem either so today you need to sit down and write 5 things you like about yourself build some self confidence and then ask the guy out and he will be glad that he is on a date with a secure self confident girl !!
2006-09-30 09:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EVERYONE is beautiful.
I thought I was ugly for years. My first boyfriend proved me otherwise. I felt beautifull when I was with him, and I still do now.
No one would lie to you. I know you probably are beautiful. :) Be confident and happy. That's so much more important than what's on the outside.
2006-09-30 09:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, instead of trying to ask him out, try being friends with him.
Take little steps and try approaching him by asking him about things that he likes. Eventually you may get up the courage to ask him out. Or have a girlfriend ask him to a group outing that you plan.
2006-09-30 09:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by poohbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what makes you feel that your ugly.because its not whats on the out side that people look at,its whats on the in side that they see.dont look at your self as ugly ok.tell your self that your just as pretty as all the other girls out there.and when they say something to you that hurts you just tell them one thing,tell them there just jelouse because you have something that they dont.good luck
2006-09-30 09:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋