I think my husband is just a rude man, it seems he grew up like that, with no fine manners and a dull sense of humor, I married young and for a long time, but now that I am older I seem to notice the differences and keep wondering what is like to be a with a fine gentleman...A well-mannered and considerate man with high standards of proper behavior: probably talks of fine things, never uses swear words, opens doors for you, tells you how pretty you are or how lucky he is to have you in his life, he probably touches very gently, smiles tenderly and lovingly, holds your hand when walking slowly down the street, these are some of the ideas that I have, but there is so much more... what else?
2006-09-30 09:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
...and so much more, dear one. Your husband tells you that you're perfect, no matter what size you are. He wipes your tears and always has a strong shoulder to lean on. He respects your right to make your own decisions, and backs you up.
When you walk on the sidewalks, he makes sure you're on the inside, with him nearer to the street. He puts his hand on the small of your back as you're crossing the street. He makes you feel like you're the most important thing in the world to him.
This isn't to say there won't be arguments or slips, but the good FAR outweighs the bad.
Many of these behaviors can be taught, so don't give up hope. Start small, suggesting your husband do some of the easier things, then thank him when he does. Kindness can be taught!
Good luck.
2006-09-30 09:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by renee_kovach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider myself to be a gentleman but find that after a while, it is no longer appreciated. I think after a while women find this kind of man boring and less fun than a bad boy . I personally believe that some women like a challenge in their relationships and if a guy is too nice or too polite, there is nothing to work toward. Maybe I haven't found a woman that respects that type of treatment or I'm just unlucky in love but I am starting to think the old saying,"nice guy's finish last" is truer than I once thought.
2006-09-30 16:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live in a real world sure it would be nice to have someone do all the things you said today it is a dream world you want it is not possible women today seam to live in a make belive world.
2006-09-30 17:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How boring. Give me a man who is going to challenge me. Not a person that thinks he needs to do everything for me.
2006-09-30 16:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by cremcharl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, does such a person actually exist. After all, we are just mere humans,
2006-09-30 16:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by M. J. B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he listens to what you have to say, values your opinion, enjoys doing things for you and with you. always treats you with respect
treats all women as ladies whether they are or not.
2006-09-30 16:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of these
2006-09-30 16:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them sex.
2006-09-30 16:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋