my husband that I'm so piss at right now is always on his cell phone. I have not seen him since last friday and he came back home on yesterday(away for work). when he is not home he calls me like 12 times a day but when he is home he is always on his cell phone.Today he gets up and tells me he is leaving that he has to go to the post office I say I have to go to. I'm driving and he is on his cell in the supermarket he is on his cell at the card shop he is on his cell. In the car on the wayback home he is not on his cell but is reading a paper.I dont understand and he feels that there is not need for me to be mad. Sometimes when we go out to eat he is on his cell. Is nothing important its all gossip....... I need help should I be mad about this
2006-09-30 08:56:29 · 16 answers · asked by Tee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they are just friends I have meet them all. but its just the point..... Then he gets mad when I'm on my PC
2006-09-30 09:01:11 · update #1
the only person that calls him at the house is his mother
2006-09-30 09:01:38 · update #2
Yep, sounds just like my husband. He talks to his friends and family overseas and while he is on the phone he is really loud. He speaks to his family in Arabic and when we are out eating or shopping it's embarrassing because everyone looks at us like we are strange. It sounds like he is in an argument with someone on the phone to everyone around us who doesn't understand what he is saying. He tells me he is always talking to his friends for business reasons, but it's all gossiping. I just don't bother with it anymore. It annoys me, but it's beyond my control. Just be Glad you husband calls you when he is away from you. Maybe he feels more comfortable communicating over the phone.
2006-09-30 10:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I were you, I'd be real mad. What is he thinking! He's been away and not seen you for a while, you'd think he'd have many things to talk over with you. You must feel so ignored with him always on the phone or what ever. Give him a alternative. Either treat me like a wife or pack your bags. He is not showing you any thing far as a husband goes. Where is the consideration, respect, and love from him. His needs are being fulfilled so what about your needs? This is no kind of marriage, sorry to say! Cocoa
2006-09-30 16:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do u have access to his phone codes, or can u get his phone records, if u r trying to figure out who he is talking to. And all that is not gossip. If he/u r married- u 2 should hav q/time-- Mayb u should say "honey, next...., i want u and i to spend a whole day together. That way u can c what sparks his interest. The purpsose for this is to get "ur dirve back"- and the reason y he calls u wen he is not home is to keep tabs on u, if its something n the bedroom, maybe u can rent "movies"/ role play things out - and c if that entices him---, or u can just talk to c what is on his/ur mind-- during a quiet dinner time.- good luck
2006-09-30 16:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by re r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a salesman and I spend allot of time on my cell too. For some reason, it became a habit that I needed to break. I don't think you should be upset but, you should try to CALMLY let your husband know that he's ignoring you in person. It's not that he doesn't acknowledge you, he just has a habit. After all, he does call you allot when he's away.
2006-09-30 16:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by willno74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you I would be. Why don't you get on yours or get you one, even if youbuy the track phone and sit and talk and talk on it everywhere you go and see what he thinks. There are a lot of people having "cell phone relationships and he sounds like a candidate.
2006-09-30 16:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe while you are at home with him or out eating you should call him to ask him something or to talk about something. It's sarcastic but tell him it's the only way you can get his attention. I know how you feel and my husband is the same way. It is very annoying and I think it is rude especially when you are out eating...it makes me feel very lonley and like I'm out eating with him but I'm sitting there by myself. Probably better off sitting by myself because then people aren't looking at me like I'm being ignored by my husband.
2006-09-30 16:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by pickledtink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your husband is addicted to cell phone & gossiping
I don't think their is help ot their for that yet
but I heard from my X girlrind that my X is also addicted
sit him down and tell him that life is passing him by
and make rule that the cell phone is off limit when he is at home with you as well as around you
cell phone are for amergencies
2006-09-30 16:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sis he could be cheating on you you better find out when you find out don't tell him but when he get home say so where have you been all week and if he don't answer go to bed when he get up and go to work grab ya kids don't tell hi you leaven cuz he might hit you so pack ya bags thats the bets thing you could do and don't go any where you know ya husband know you would go and don;t forget to get soe money
2006-09-30 16:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by eerah muhamad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife talks on her phone alot and it is very annoying I would like to stomp on it .Cell phones are great things to have but I just don't like to talk to people that much.Who gives a crap about gossip .
2006-09-30 18:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and get a cell phone and u2 could talk to eachother on the phone instead of real converstaion,
2006-09-30 18:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋