I am unable to achieve an orgam in less than 7 or 8 hours. I have gotten my girlfriend off many times but when its time for me to get off I cant. This causes her frustration and she starts to feel bad about herself. Is there anything I can do to rectify the situation. Ive had this problem for years and I need to know if there is anything I can do to achieve an orgasm in a reasonable amount of time. Thank You.
2006-09-30 08:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by concerned 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Son , what you have here is not a problem. First thing ditch the girlfriend cuz rest assured millions of women would love for their man to have this problem. this is a god given talent, dont waste it on one women you fool. Forget about you getting off man, your street cred will be so high once you dip into another 5 or 6 women that you'll be fighting em off once they hear you can go for hours. Trust me, word of mouth is very effective!
2006-09-30 12:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by zenarcade83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i advise you to see a urologist as soon as possible. there are MANY possible reasons for this affliction. i know, i've been in your place.
1. have your urologist do testing to see
a. what your testosterone levels are
b. if you diabetes
c. if you have poor circulation in your penis
2. if you're taking any anti-depressants (except Wellbutrin) or heart medications---they could be your culprit.
i also believe you're experiencing performance anxiety---living in fear that the next sexual encounter will also not be successful.
don't beat yourself up over this issue, mother nature is doing that already.
3. keep open communications ongoing between you and your g/f. continously remind her she's sexy and a turn on, but right now nature is interfering in your encounters. if she truly loves and cares for you, she'll want to jointly solve the issue at hand.
4. you might want to try a few sessions of masturbation, just to release your frustrations and know that you're still capable of ejaculating.
i know it's a very difficult and tedious problem to live through. you have my sympathy and caring concern, friend.
be good to yourself!
2006-09-30 11:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy!!
Well first of all you need to comfort your girl. Explain to her that its not her fault. However, rectifying this problem can be fun for both of you. Experimenting is pretty fun hehe :o)
You could get yourself a few sex toys and things to help move things along faster. Sit with her and browse a few online stores for some fun vibrating gadgets and give them a try :o)
You can solve this together and have loads of fun trying out new things.
Best of luck!
2006-09-30 09:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by AviatorChris. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People dont talk enough about that problem I had that for a while sometimes I would just stop after my girl would *** a few times but latley I've been cumming quick its then you realize that sex is mostly mental bro, whats on your mind affects your dick and sorry to put it crudely but it is what it is also if your not circumcised it takes longer or if you yank it alot
2006-09-30 09:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by millenniumrelations 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake it so she won't feel so bad
2006-09-30 10:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to finger your rectum and see if that helps...
2006-09-30 08:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Philip S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.......date me?
2006-09-30 09:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋