I lost my girl for lying to her about someone I slept with while we were separated now she wont even speak to me or pick up my calls she even told me that I lost a good friend which i know i did...I didn't tell her because I was scared of losing her which i just did now it has been a month and she hates me...Im lost without her and ive lost wait i have a 4yr old that i cant even get it together for him..should i let her go or should I persue it this woman is my world ...someone please give me an answer ...
2006-09-30 08:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by Yashira S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it looks like your trust has been broken, and that is a tough thing for someone to get over. If this person truly love you and you truly want it to work, you have to be completely honest with them. Especially since there is a child involved. You have to be open with her...let her know exactly what you've been telling us. I'm not sure why she is having such a hard time if you were separated at the time. It's possible she's feeling very hurt, and in time she will see that you truly do care for her. Keep trying. Keep things together with your son, get your act together in general. Once she sees that you're trying so hard, maybe she'll realize how much she means to you. Good luck!
2006-09-30 08:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by katyzta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to focus on your 4 year old. You may be in pain but before anything else, you are a mother. If you two were split up, why does she have an issue with who you were with? You need to know that if this doesn't work out, time will get you through this. Every day is a day healed. Stay focused on a healthy life, be there for your son and maybe it's time to put your love life on hold for awhile. Best of luck
2006-09-30 15:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try talking to her hunny tell her how u feel and if she still doesnt want to talk to u then u no what u did all u can do u tryed... then im sure there is someone out there for u everuthing happens for a reason.... jus learn from what happens an u cant change the past so dont live in it stay strong for ur kid and good luck :)
2006-09-30 15:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really serious and wont ever cheat agin, should sit down and have a serious chat with her. think about this, what if you cheated on her, and she is asking for a chance, what would u do? U'd expect repentence, apology, promise 2 never do it again and a good excuse for doing it, do the same man, good luck, i hope u work out. My best wishes. i feel u, i really do.
2006-09-30 15:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by noms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her if shes unable to fogive then you just need to move on and accept that you were at fault.
2006-09-30 15:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her and talk and ask her for forgiveness,apologize,if she still doens't forgive,then let it go.
2006-09-30 15:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ramon O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait.?.
u r a girl!!?!
*well ya*
<3
2006-09-30 15:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by ballet_tigger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your screwed. maybe in time but don't count on it
2006-09-30 15:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by mrmiketattoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need her you need me boo
2006-09-30 16:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by ghetto_dawta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh great more dykes
2006-09-30 15:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋