My relationship with my ex-fiancee was three and a half years of the very best days of ourlives(admittedly on her part), but we started off wrong. We were not happy with ourselves and got very over involved. Alot of hurtful things were done and said. Not cheating, but verbal abuse on both of our parts-competition for who has it together more. Now we have been seperated for three months, she left me. However, I pushed her away and asked her to leave a few times. Now I have made my bed and am lying in it, and deservably so. We are at different points in our lives now, and we both love ourselves now. She kept the ring and still loves me, but she is doing this for herself, because she wants to be happy and I understand because she gave all of herself to our relationship and I was immature about things or took it for granted I guess. She is dating someone else and I am to, admittedly on both our parts-nothing serious.
How do I earn her trust, and ultimately progress?
2006-09-30 08:37:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First you stop using other people to get over eachother, then you talk together and figure out everything and what to do about it. Get to know eachother all over again and better. See if you can manage being together again and learn to stop with the verbal abuse.
2006-09-30 08:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you want to get her back? You said you both are in relationships with other people. Please get one mess straighten up before you dive into another, one doesn't need wonder why
2006-09-30 08:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suprise her with something huge!! beg for her forgivness and admitt that u were wrong and ask her to go out with u and make her a promise
2006-09-30 08:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋