We have been intimate before but it never led to intercourse. It was a battle between heart and mind and my mind always won-I was worried about ruining the friendship. We don't see each other often as we live 3 hours away. I'm only in town when I'm there for business purposes (we work together but in different offices. we've developed a great friendship over the past 6 years) He has always welcomed me to stay over at his place and I have on several occasions, in his spare bedroom. I never have any expectations when I with him, sexually that is - I enjoy being around him. We have lots in common. The next time I see him is in 2 weeks. He knows I'm coming but will not be home when I get there. I would like to surprise him when he comes home. I'm not into the lingerie/garter belt & stockings thing as I see that is a very popular answer here. I'm thinking a few candles, wine, music...would it be corny if I had asked him to dance with me? Your suggestions are welcomed....
2006-09-30 08:36:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tear his pants off and go for it
2006-09-30 08:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Pauline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were him, and you wanted to change our "friendship" to something more, I would appreciate just being told that. Tell him, " we have been friends, and I would really like to spend time together and see if we could be more than that." Then see what he says. Have this conversation before you get there, and if sounds like it will go your way, then surprise him with the wine, music, etc. Have fun and good luck.
2006-09-30 15:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by missouri bulldog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any male under the age of 39 is easily seduced and your ideas are fine and will get the results you're seeking. Just make sure to take the birth control pills I hope you have and honey, don't get too many expectations. He may be bodily ready, but emotionally unsure.
2006-09-30 15:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a few sexy remarks to him like your looking fiiiiiiine or score out of 10 I'd give you one. Just come on to him as much as you can and if he plays back just bowl in and get going, if not the all you've done is make him feel sexy and had a laugh without embarassing yourself.
2006-09-30 15:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but yes, the lingerie thing would make it more fun. Try to make it a little casual though. If you pressure it too much, you might jinx it.
2006-09-30 15:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set the mood. dinner,candles, music (softly) sexy dress, ect. nature should take care of the rest. if not just jump his bones lol good lick
2006-09-30 15:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by mrmiketattoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can come visit me anytime.
2006-09-30 15:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** the brother girl
2006-09-30 15:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by ebiraland 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just get naked and say lets do it
2006-09-30 15:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have herpes
2006-09-30 15:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by bhcky79 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋