my friend and i hate a huge agrument and now i regret telling everyone her secret. she's so upset about this. there was only 4 ppl that knew her secret now everyone knows it. i blamed it to another friend now she's not speaking to her. i know what i did was wrong but how can i tell her without her breaking our friendship.
2006-09-30 08:31:45 · 20 answers · asked by AngelCakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
girl,
tell her. she'll find out it anyways. what you did was wrong? you made her mad at another person instead of you. how could you do such thing? you don't sound like a good friend at all. tell her or someone else will. and when she find out about that. she'll hate you for that. oops sorry i'm not trying to be rude but what you did was totally wrong. either way she'll hate you. just tell her that you were the one who told everyone her secret. she'll might hate you and not speak to you but she might get over it. don't tell me the secret is really really big that would made her this upset
2006-09-30 08:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, of all you are not a friend. No matter what the situation is you don't never tell anyone what your friend told you. You can tell her but she'll never trust you again with any type of information. Sometime people tell you things just to see if it's going to get back. I say this much how important is your friendship. you might have really lost a true friend behind some bullshit you could of talk out among each other. hope everything work out for the best good luck on keeping secrets.
2006-09-30 16:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by hotnpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You betrayed her trust not once but twice by blaming the other girl. You can find a smidgeon of honor by owning your actions and telling her the truth. Likely, she'll want nothing to do with you when she learns of this but it's a hard lesson to take responsibility for ones actions. In the future, if you keep divulging the secrets of your friends because of petty differences you'll end up without any. Good luck.
2006-09-30 15:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it should ruin the friendship, because you did something very wrong and blamed it on someone else. Yes you should tell, then try to fix your problem in your own way. Tell her I really want to be friends with you, thats why I'm telling you the truth.
2006-09-30 16:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't. Keep it a secret if you can—your relationship will continue until you break her confidence or mistreat her in some other more obvious way. (What was her secret?—you can tell me—I won't tell anyone else, and, no, I don't want to be your friend).
2006-09-30 15:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant be trusted with a secret. Tell her. You already caused her to stop speaking to another friend.
2006-09-30 15:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by counterstriker_gta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant tell her without ruining your friendship or at least changing it. why did you tell her secret?? jealousy?? If you do tell her it was you but tell her your real feelings of why you did it, she may (in time) forgive you.
2006-09-30 15:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to own up to what you did, blaming someone else just shows you are not trustworthy.... if you want to try to salvage the relationship tell her... lies lead only to more lies
2006-09-30 15:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a pretty messed up thing to do. You need to tell her, but you can't expect her not to ever want to talk to you again.
2006-09-30 15:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was mean of u to tell her secret. tell her u told everyone and apologize and beg her forgiveness.
2006-09-30 15:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋