I am 7 months pregnant and have been having crazy dreams anyway. Also I we are restricted from having sex because I am a high risk pregnancy, so am I just scared he may go out with someone else in my sub conscious?
2006-09-30 08:29:57 · 13 answers · asked by fglns 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I had bizarre, crazy, psycho dreams about my husband cheating on me toward the end of my pregnancy.... I was also restricted to no sex with a high risk pregnancy... I talked to both my husband and my Dr. about the dreams.... The dr. assured me they were normal dreams based on my current inability to have sex and the misconception that if he wasn't getting it from me he would get it elsewhere... My husband assured me that he was content to wait for sex while I was incapacitated with the pregnancy...
It was just my overactive imagination, coupled with stress and feelings of hornyness of my own all coming out as my mind firing off random stuff in the night...
My Dream
I would dream about my husband in a bar with a bunch of girls all wearing signs that read "Not Pregnant" "Safe For Sex" and "Take Me, I Can" I would then dream that he would choose one and they would have sex because as the signs said she wasn't in the condition I was in...
I used to wake in the night feeling hurt and angry at my husband for what he (Yes not him my imagination) did in the dream...
One night I got so angry at the dream I woke my husband up and made him go sleep on the sofa because of what the dream him did...
I will give hubby credit he went to the couch with a pillow and a blanket no complaints... He was confused but didn't complain... Even the next morning when I woke up sad because he wasn't in bed with me and I cryed because he slept on the couch.. LOL
I was a bit hormonal that night....
You are not the only pregnant woman to have those dreams... Talk to your husband about the dreams so he has a heads up should you get snippy with him outside the dream... Talk to your dr he/she will explain the dreams are just hormones and random stuff firing in the night... Only a few more weeks to go before your baby is born... You can make it don't be afraid to talk about the dreams nd feelings with your husband he understands you are under weird stress and weird stress makes for weird dreams
2006-09-30 09:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a dream, you have to not eat to much before going to sleep, or not eat too much, or too much ice cream o Sweet, meat. That kind of behavior make you have bad dreams. good luck with your baby and do not be afraid your Hubbard loves you it is not everything about sex in the marriage
2006-09-30 08:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.
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2006-09-30 08:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can not tell you how many times my wife has had those kind of dreams. most times i am at work when she wakes so she has time to get over it before i get home but on the occasional times that i am home when she wakes i get a cold shoulder. its just a dream, nothing more, nothing less. dont take it out on him. he is doing the best he can under trying situation. no sex is rough on a man
2006-09-30 08:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by fn_49@hotmail.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy dreams are BIZARRE, to say the least. Are you worried he might cheat on you? I know I worried about that a little bit early on. I wouldn't worry about it though. Most men aren't slimy enough to cheat on their pregnant wives.
2006-09-30 08:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's just a dream. Might want to listen to him talking in his sleep though. You can learn some interesting things.
2006-09-30 08:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones I have crazy dreams like that to 32 weeks pregnant as well good luck to you
2006-09-30 08:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey its not a dream. I saw him last night in a hotel At Wychoff and Halsey in Brooklyn, and by the looks of things you may be in for alot more sleepless nights.
2006-09-30 08:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by steak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The pourpose of dreams is to exercise your emotions and organize thoughts. They arent preminitions but they do show you possiblities in order to exercise your emotions.
2006-09-30 08:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a dream i use to do it all the time and my husband would never cheat on me, and im sure your husband is the same, i wouldnt stress it unless you see that he really is
2006-09-30 09:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋