Anymore when my boyfriend and I go out he doesn't show me affection that much anymore.. we have been together for 2 years and all he wants to do is shoot pool. I don't get hugs from him much anymore.. just makes me feel like he doesn't love me anymore..
2006-09-30 08:24:06 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have asked him if there was someone eles and he says no.. if he wanted anyone or was thinkin about cheating then he would leave me first.. I trust that he's not cheatin.. just hurts my feelings that he's like this anymore
2006-09-30 08:29:22 · update #1
This happens alot in relationships. You guys have been together for some time now. He's probably just so comfortable with the relationship that he feels he doesn't need to show affection. Guys are so completely different in that aspect.
2006-09-30 08:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys tend to pull away when they feel they are comfortable or they get too close. I suggest you give him a chance to miss you!! Pick a night where he'd usually expect you to be in together and arrange to go out with the girls, do a night class, pick up a new hobby like yoga or rock climbing! Be more busy, suddenly you are new and interesting and he'll want to spend more time with you and be more affectionate, then you just have to choose how much of that time you now have for him. ;D
2006-09-30 15:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by annita p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesnt mean being romantic all the time and it doesnt mean feelings that are good. Love is selfless and looks to others needs other than ones own needs. So talk to him and get him to tell you whats been on his mind lately. Dont tempt him to do anything bad or wrong. Just simply talk to him and ask him whats been happening in his life and if you can help.
2006-09-30 15:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Speaking Truth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen, Jen, Jen anytime that a man stops showing you affection is mostly because he is showing it to someone else. Check into it and if I am wrong then maybe you guys need to have a serious talk.
2006-09-30 15:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by ciaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you need more affection from him. And that you miss that side of him. Have a romantic evening together. Bring back the affection that you once had.
2006-09-30 15:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to make him get jealous...maybe it's the only way to prove if he loves you or not. And about what you asked him if he had someone new...he might not have anyone but just his love for you is fading away...I think you better talk to him.
2006-09-30 16:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel youre pain cause i am going through the same thing. everytime we are out my boyfriends acts all werid and big but before it wasnt a problem just kno that you love him and he love you but if tit really upsets you just get mad and be like if this is how you wanna treat me then count me out of this relationship, then he'll relize that he had no idea how you felt and treat you better and show you how he really feels.
2006-09-30 15:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen, maybe you should talk to him about that situation, let him know that you feel that you are unneeded. My boyfriend does the same thing, and I tell him about that. you wonna know what he told me? he said that I wasn't showing that I cared for him, and he basically tried to do the same thing to me... maybe there is something between this, just let him know how you feel and maybe things will change... good luck
2006-09-30 15:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Angel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have three choces #1 ask him whats wrong thats why we don' care like we used to #2 do you love me am i missing something here #3 or you can leave him a not pack up your things and leave him and say i can't take it any any more i love you but we can't be togethere any more sorry
2006-09-30 15:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by eerah muhamad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if there's a problem.... give him a chance to show you that he still loves you, if there's no change in him.... i think it's best if you tell him honestly what you feel because you don't want to be with someone that doesn't love you ... and just wants sex..
2006-09-30 15:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋