ok so i like this guy, and he's like my really good friend, and he knows i like him and i think he likes me bc he flirts with me alot. one problem: he has a gf. they don't talk, i've seen them hug once. i'm confused. does he like me or not?
2006-09-30 08:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by that-one-girl-with-nice-hair 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's always nice to me and gives me hugs. during orchestra, it seems like he'd rather talk to me and one of my best friends, instead of his other friends on the class. i've caught him looking at me a ton of times. my other friend says he does like me, he's just consfused to how i feel, but he know i like him bc i already told him.
2006-09-30 08:44:36 · update #1
Yes he most definitely likes you, but bout the g/f he has got, maybe he does want you but cant at the same time because of the girl on the side... I find it to be to painful to wait when u really like someone, but i would suggest wait for them to break up.. But don't make them break up yourself, wait for something to happen
2006-09-30 08:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ,,,, You didn't state the age bracket you are in but from what it sounds like to me you have a fella that always likes to keep open channels in one or more directions ,,,,,,, Flirting doesn't necessarily mean he's interested in you romantically ,,,,, Allot of guys ,,,,, especially young guys are like anglers ,,,,, they cast their line out in all directions to see what they can catch ,,,,, His flirting with you sends a couple or more different messages as I can see it and a question ,,,,,, If he's flirting then the message says he's not all that interested in this girlfriend he already has ,,,,,, Or his flirting could mean he's willing to step out on her behind her back for a few kicks which goes back to his girlfriend again and it would make you look like a heel going out with him knowing he already has a girlfriend ,,,,,, I would feel sorry for her really ,,,, And the question is ,,, Who else is he flirting with ?? If you wouldn't want that to happen to you then don't be a part of it happenning to some one else,,,,, And too or again ,,,, He just might be a big jokester ,,,,, But if you became his girlfriend ,,,, then what's to say he wouldn't do the same thing to you,,,,,, eventually,,,,,,,, what he's doing to the girlfriend he has now ,,,,, Read the messages he sends you but look at the person sending them,,,, so to speak ,,,,, Every one has two sides to them ,,,,,, look at both sides and look through him so to speak too,,,,,, Don't become a heel or a fool because of him because guys can do that to people ,,,,,, As can girls too though ,,,,,,, It works that way for both genders ,,,,,
2006-09-30 09:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u're in the position of asking him personal questions, then try to be honest with him and ask him if he's doing well with his gf, just let it come casually and maybe he'll throw a hint or something and u'll get everything abt himself
2006-09-30 08:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by what goes around comes around 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it ... he has a girlfriend .... how many times do u need to see them hug... try looking through their bedroom window.
He may fancy a bit of 'fresh meat' but i doubt he'll leave his gf...
... and u girls wonder why guys cheat eh..?
Dr Bad
2006-09-30 08:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay out of it maybe they're not big on PDA im not sayindg he doesn't like you but he may just be a natural flirt and you don't want to get involved and then find out he doesn't like you and be embarrassed and hurt
2006-09-30 08:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by L Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably can't bring himself to break up with his girl friend or something. it's obvious he likes you better, he probably doesn't like his gf at all if they don't spend much time together. ask him why he hasn't broken up with her yet?
2006-09-30 08:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very possible that he likes you, and just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean that he can't.....but I wouldn't plan on him breaking up with her 4 u....sorry, but it's the truth
2006-09-30 08:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by krazykat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he likes you, but not in that way, so don't get your hopes all up.
2006-09-30 08:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same situation except he is single. sry, can't help you! =(
2006-09-30 08:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and tell him all u think about him.
2006-09-30 08:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jose! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋