2006-09-30 08:05:24 · 28 answers · asked by danny100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we split up cos i acussed her of cheating, but i don't know if i was right, she swears nothing went on but i think i ave made a mistake and want her back, sorry if i wasn't to clear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 08:20:22 · update #1
if she is seeing someone else already she must have been cheating find someone else you deserve better
2006-09-30 08:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would move on know why it's not worth it and you will only be spending time with each other trying to say sorry and both of you will not mean it.
don't wast your time trying to be unhappy,your better alone then unhappy.
think about it.you split up for a reason and i cannot see you working thing's out the way it used to be,all you would do it find fault and want to go through the same pain once again.so stop and take a good look at the real picture and see if you can make sence which i cannot.all i can see is a relationship that is waiting to fall apart again.don't put yourself through the pain again lad.
you don't get too many secon chance's in life so make the most of it.find someone new and try to be happy.don't give up on yourself lad,there is some one nice out there just for you.don't give up please,and don't let anyone tell you any different.you sound like a nice person and i do believe your strong enough to move on.
she will not be comfortable going back to her past.
2006-09-30 08:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by mariolla oneill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and 'get her back'.
If you're planning on getting with another girl just to make her jelous I think that's pretty pathetic.
If you were inlove and wanted to spend the rest of your lives together at some point, it means you should be mature enough to do things like 'getting her back' because she has found someone else. If it wasn't meant to be - it wasn't meant to be. Let her go and only get with another girl when you're ready and when you've found someone you really like and not hurt 2 women just for the sake of making yourself feel better without crushing your pride.
You either want to get her back and do everything you can to get her back, or if it's over just leave it.
2006-09-30 08:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Vickyandbump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get her back? If you split up with her than it's good she has moved on. Don't try to get her back for being with another guy...and don't jump to conclusions. That is probably the worst thing you could do. What if you get her back and it turns out she wasn't with anyone at all.
2006-09-30 08:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by xox1sexyangeloxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you split up then ask yourself why you did and
how much time has passed. If you feel she has moved on, then there's probably no chance of gettting back together. However, you say you 'think' shes seeing another guy which indicates you dont really know, so, getting her back is really just trying to reconnect and communicate with her. Start your communication with her fresh. Good luck.
2006-09-30 08:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her let her go ... the best way to get her back if that is really what you want is to get on with your life keep a low profile and do not contact her. Treat them mean to keep them keen. It is the worst thing to be in a relationship or marriage when you are the only one interested. Every disappointment is a blessing!
2006-09-30 08:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by di d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the key term there is SPLIT UP. If you two werent seeing each other at that time than it doesnt matter. I f it buggs you that much tell her, Or obviously your still in love w/her andyour doing that outta spite. Maybe she was doing that to make you jealious, because you broke up w/her.
2006-09-30 08:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you are just a tad to late, but hey you can still keep on trying, if you are sorry for accusing her of something she didn't do, then talk to her, if you love her tell her you are sorry, and wont to try again, be honest how you feel, and take it from there..........good luck and god bless.
2006-09-30 09:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many 'I's' in that question... It was not all about 'you' and now 'you' are finding that out in heaps... Take more time next time to consider other people's feelings and positions before letting those barrels go.
2006-09-30 19:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by David W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself do you only want her back because you think shes with someone else,
what were the reasons you split up
2006-09-30 08:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust her now. Sounds like a terrible cliche, but there really are plenty more fish in the sea...
2006-09-30 08:10:26 · answer #11 · answered by Andy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋