How do you spice up your married life if things seem dead after just 3 years?

Answer 1

Be more romantic toward one another. Try a verity of positions, exploring each other, rubbing and stroking, but be tender about it no bondage; that leads to a more abusive life style.

Answer 2

Married 2+ years with a baby, and our sex life couldn't be better! The longer that we have been together the Better it gets. We fell in love at first sight & went out every day together (we haven't been apart for one day since we started dating), got engaged 3 months later, got married 3 months after that, had a baby a little over a year later. And our love has gotten even stronger then I thought possible! I think the Sex & Passion part of our lives are amazing because, we love each other more than life itself, We are very open and honest with each other, We are best friends, Whenever we get into an argument, we make up right away, and we still do cute things for each other, like write love notes, and buy cutesy gifts, And we both eat healthy (for the most part) and exercise and keep in good shape. Our love, sex, and passion is more intense now then it ever was, and i know it's going to be even stronger as we continue our lives together. Plus I fantasize about him all day.......MMMMM

Answer 3

First, think about the love that brought you together in the first place. Put back some of the elements that may have gone missing since then.
Second, find more things to do together. The more time and effort you invest in your marriage, the more precious it will become to you. When we work together for a common goal, we grow closer together in sharing and caring.
Third, find a common spiritual goal. Look for your life beyond mortality. If you want to be together always, then start doing things together that will bring that kind of happiness and spiritual oneness.
Be committed to each other and be responsible for each other. Love will follow.
When you have done all of that, you will find that your love life will have gained a new depth and meaning that you never before imagined possible.
Best wishes.

Answer 4

Is your relationship truly dead? I hope there is something there that keeps you together with your spouse.

Please seek marriage counseling if you can. A problem like this isn't answered well on yahoo answers. There are too many details and nuances that we will never know about your relationship. An objective counselor can help you see your problem in a different way. Good luck. ;)

Answer 5

Ray Bradbury wrote a short story where the couple kept their marriage interesting in an unusual way. The wife, an actress, changed her appearance by using different colors of wigs, and dressing in radically different styles, and "acting" in different ways. They did this on a regular schedule and kept their marriage fresh that way. I don't know if it would actually work or not.

Answer 6

Try to spend more time together away from the house. Take each other out on dates. Do things that the other would not have expected. You guys can also play dress up.

Answer 7

well that would depend on what part of your married life is dead. email me back and let's talk. I've been married for five years and maybe we can correspond

Answer 8

you can start to do things together that you wouldn't have done before together

Answer 9

read the book called "Sheet Music" i think it's by kevin leman

Answer 10

paint and play board games and decorate the house and have him go shopping with you......It works