I am changing my image so I need to know if it is better to change all at once or gradually change one step at a time? I have been trying to be something I am not for about 5 or 6 years and I really want to change my image to what I really am. So is it better to change all at once or one step at a time? I am thinking it might be easier on me and my friends if I do it one step at a time. But I would like your oppinion. Thanks in advance. I didn't know which category to put this question in.
2006-09-30 07:51:48 · 11 answers · asked by Eric 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I would try one step at a time.
2 Reasons:
1. You can get used to it gradually, so it is less stressful.
2. If you don't like it, you can change back without having sunk a ton of money and time into it.
2006-09-30 08:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm happy that you want to be yourself... that's the most important thing... I think that you should do what's best for you - if you are ready to change, do it all at once.
If your changes involve lifestlye changes as well, but you hope to keep your friends from your old life... then it might be wise to be gradual. This way, they will be less likely to think that you are trying to alienate them. good luck!
2006-09-30 14:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by jac h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS. I agree with you. It's better to get used to little changes first, then move on to the big stuff when you're ready. Like you said, one step at a time.
2006-09-30 14:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i keep changing mine around! its hard i know, but usually i will suddenly change everything if lets say, i just came back from a vacation, or the next school year, the new year, that kind of thing. there's a bit of shock factor the first couple days when people see you again, but as long as its positive change people won't mind! and who cares about what they think? it's about you right?
2006-09-30 14:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by lalalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it all at once; you need/want the change so there should be nothing stopping you feeling better about yourself. There's also the added bonus of people saying "wow, you look amazing!" when they see the transformation :o)
2006-09-30 15:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that what u really what u want .But if it is Change all at once because it really good to show off ur strength
2006-09-30 14:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Dancehall Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, i would say after a weekend, just do it. Change overnight to show people you are serious. It's something you're allowed to do and you can!
2006-09-30 14:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be who you want to be, and do it all at once. Why prolong the misery and uncomfortableness you are feeling by not being yourself?
Good luck!
2006-09-30 14:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your going to start wearing girls clothing and make up then i say u might wanna sit them down and have a little chat..but i say be who u are no matter what. true friends will be there no matter what your image is..good luck!!!
2006-09-30 14:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by Criddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it one step at a time, so it seems like just a normal change into something different. If you change all at one time people are gonna be like wtf?
2006-09-30 15:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋