My dads a paramedic and hes going to school for it. he goes to school on tuesdays and thursdays 5am to 10pm i go to bed at 9pm. and i never see him hes ither working and on call all weekend and week. or hes at school and finally when he has a little time off hes at a friends helping them out, getting drunk, or hunting, or at his girlfriends house. i never get to see him. or spend quality time with him!!! we dont even get to eat dinner together!!! i always do the cleaning arround the house i have like 15 chores. i even have to cook for my self!! and when i dont feel like cooking for my self. i go hungry!!! Im 14 for crying out loud!!! HOW CAN I SPEND SOME QUALITY TIME WITH MY DADDY? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 07:36:27 · 22 answers · asked by loveless 1 in Games & Recreation ➔ Video & Online Games
this has been going on for a year
2006-09-30 07:45:50 · update #1
thanks for all your help ill try to try them all out and for the guy whoes crying im sorry to here about your dad thanx luv yall
2006-09-30 08:03:20 · update #2
Make him a snack and put it in a paper bag. Give him a card saying how much you miss him. Shower him with affection when you do see him. Tell him you want a Father/Daughter date...
Good luck Hon!
2006-09-30 07:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you go hungry that's not good. You're growing and you need the nutrition. Can you go to a relatives house every dinner? or your dad should leave you allowance and then you can go to a fast food place or cook tv dinners (neither are very healthy though) or learn to cook something. :-) Your dad is very irresponsible for leaving you home alone. Since you're still in school, don't you get lunch there? You can purchase maybe your dinner there too! Buy one of those microwavable sandwhiches
2006-09-30 07:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well u could stay up past 9 PM and catch him when he gets home and tell him that u want to spend more time with him. I am sure He will understand why you stayed up so late to have a little talk with him. I am sure he will spend less time with his friends. Most of the time parents think that there child is just fine and that they are enjoying there time with ther friends. All they want is for you to be happy and if you are not happy if they care about you enough they will change for you.
2006-09-30 08:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by ivan j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same was my situation whn i was 13 until 16 now better, i cope up situation by feeding pets spending time with them, thinking them as a part of my family, i was bit pshycologically affected, but still was having gud life from my imagination..i imagined evryone as if i m speaking ,laughing with thm...bbut thts not gud r advisble...
i hav heard a story saying a boy paying the dad for spending time with him... he enquired how much he earns and thn starts saving...to spend time with his father...gals at this situation gets fallen into fake love n spoil their futur..
try having friends...
all the best
2006-09-30 07:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by SARATH C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I'm sorry about that. That must be very stressful. You need to make time with your dad to sit him down and talk to him. Let him know how you feel, tell him its important that he spends time with you and how all the responsibility shouldn't be up to you. You are still a young teenager with a life. Talk to your dad.
2006-09-30 07:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by loveme 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try and ask your dad if you could like go to a class with him so that you could learn about it. Then if you were to start asking him questions then you would be spending a little time with him even if your just sitting there listening. At least you're with him.
2006-09-30 07:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by pisces3999 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh dear i am really sorry for all this happening to u n u only 14!bless u and bless the creature who made us all helpless in little world with our own blood...you sound like you dint have your mum along with you...you need serious help before you take a wrong road in life....and the person who wrote u above"your dad hates u" i am sure its not the case..been stressful and hectic in life must be your dad"s reason...you should sit together with an adult whom u close to,so that he or she can make him explain how you feel....i wish u good luck dear....
2006-09-30 07:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Yasmin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him: "Dad.... at any rate i love and i need to spend some time with you. I'll buy you lunch just once, just this time only".
May be if he sees that you have nice time together will accept again. All the best friend!
2006-09-30 07:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by supernova 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someone needs to get you some help, is there another adult with you? I know you are technicall old enough to take care of your self but we are talking about neglect. You need to tell an adult maybe a teacher or friends parent.
Good Luck
2006-09-30 07:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by samanny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that the two of you need to sit down and have a serious talk and then tell him exactly how you feel. Do you have a Mom? If so, she needs to be included in this conversation. But speak up or no one will ever know how you feel. He can't read your mind.
2006-09-30 07:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋