I have a friend that I thought was true. She hurts my feelings sometimes without her noticing. I want her to know how I feel but I don't want to hurt her. I also want to stay friends with her and she's my only true best friend. What should I do? Please help me. I don't want to be a loner again.
2006-09-30 07:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Once I tried to tell her how I felt about what she did she thought I was weird. I don't want that to happen again. I don't even think she'll ever be sincere about what I say.
2006-09-30 07:37:58 · update #1
To be honest with you, i think you should tell her how you really feel. If she's a true friend she would understand and put that behind her, and wouldn't make a big problem out of it. Sometimes you have to let them know. How would they know that your feelings are hurt if you dont tell them?
if she doesnt want to be your friend anymore you can have me as your friend.
2006-09-30 07:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you don't want to hurt her but what has she been doing to you? You need to tell her how she makes you feel regardless of her feelings. She obviously doesn't care about your feelings because she keeps hurting them.
Remember, a true best friend will understand.
Start making other friends. You need them in order to realize that it won't be the end of the world if this girl chooses not to stay your friend.
2006-09-30 15:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is a TRUE BLUE... she should be able to handle what u need to say. Be honest and let her know how you feel.. Sometimes folks don't realize that they are saying or doing things to offend someone.
2006-09-30 14:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this "friend" is hurting your feelings then maybe you shouldn't be hanging out with her. I think you don't want to tell her because you ll lose her as a friend but if you talk to her she will probably understand you and hopefully will stop hurting your feelings
2006-09-30 14:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to make new friends and let this girl know that you need to be treated like a human not an animal and if she really wants to be your friend then she will understand good luck
2006-09-30 14:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by tawni T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems your a loner and your holding on reallly tight to a not so close friend to keep from being alone just make new friends
2006-09-30 14:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by meatballhead400 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI MY NAME IS JERRY IM 15 WANT TO CHAT IF YOU DO MY EMAIL IS fraustoj042@yahoo.com if dont want to chat thats cool
2006-09-30 15:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new friend, the old one isn't working for you
2006-09-30 14:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with her....!
2006-09-30 14:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋