Ok. I am very well gifted, also in that case... but what is a girl
doing with small breasts (my sister for instance) ?
She is as sexy as I am. And nice
and beautiful too.
Why are men crazy about big breasts!`?
2006-09-30 07:03:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
To me boobs are boobs!.... Big ones,small ones,long ones, round ones...white ones, brown ones,tan ones,yellow ones......saggy ones,perky ones, wiggly ones,straggly ones....To me boobs are BOOBS!!!
2006-09-30 07:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by viper 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
A question for the ages, on a par with "How come a slice of buttered bread will almost always fall on the carpet, buttered side down?"
As some here have mentioned, not all men like big breasts. Some actually prefer smaller-breasted women, which explains why some men think Gwen Stefani and Gwyneth Paltrow are sexy. (I think Gwen is...but I can take or leave Gwyneth.) Unlike what someone here has said, though, whether or not a man was breastfed "enough" has nothing to do with whether or not they like big breasts (since the ability to breastfeed has nothing to do with the size of the breasts). Also, unlike what someone here said, I don't think we can blame Hollywood entirely for it either. After all, there are plenty of Hollywood actresses who were busty and then underwent breast reductions (Queen Latifah, Soleil Moon Frye, Kim Fields and Drew Barrymore, to name just four). Sure, a lot of them will claim back pain and all that, but since (as Oprah has proved time and again), most women in the United States are wearing the wrong sized bra, in most cases, if they had only gone for a proper bra fitting they wouldn't have needed to go for surgery. (If you slouch all the time, big boobs or not, that would probably cause back pain too. I know a gal who is a B cup and SHE complains of back pain.)
So, the question remains: why some men's fascination with big breasts?
Partly because (as also has been said here) we are attracted to opposites. Men like boobs because men don't have them. (Unless you suffer from gynecomastia or are just obese, of course. Men have pectoral muscles, but men with these conditions also have mammary glands -- which is the technical term for breasts.)
Another reason: men associate breasts with the essence of being a woman...and as men so often think, if a little is good, then more is even better. Hence, the bigger the boobs, the more womanly they assume the woman is.
Yet another reason: is it that men are attracted are big breasts, or that women who have big breasts are more visible and are therefore more easily noticed? Chicken, meet egg.
Fourth reason: breasts are fun to be around. They are round, they are warm, they are soft, they can be bounced in your hands, they can be sucked on, they can be licked, and they can even give milk. I think it was Steve Martin who said something close to, "If I was a woman, I would stay home and play with my breasts all day". The bigger the breasts are, the more fun you can have with them.
Can you tell that I've put a lot of thought into this? That's because, all else being equal, I tend to gravitate towards the big breasted woman too :) And it doesn't really matter how pretty or ugly or nice or not-so-nice a woman is, if a guy likes big breasts and she has them, they're gonna go for them...and the same if she has small ones and that's the kind of woman he likes.
Human beings are weird, aren't we? But that's life!
steelypen also has a good point: we also like the rare and the unusual finds. To quote: "There are very few women with curvy bodies, and pleasant faces...so when men see the big boobs on a pretty girl, who isn't fat, they respond to a rare opportunity. Same thing with long flowing locks from shampoo commercial. Unusual"...I think that sums it up nicely. Well done.
2006-09-30 07:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by jalabi99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Assurance that the woman's got good supply of milk! lol. Yep. That was my impression while I was about... 14 years old?
Big breasts does not only make the woman look sexier, but also stimulates most (if not all) men's sexy imaginations - sexual fantasies even.
I've lost interest anymore, though, when the artificially enlarged breast -- the "silicon" -- became a trend. It seems like it's not so good to touch at all. Now, for me, an a-cup wouldn't matter anymore for as long as it is natural. Therefore, big boobs is not really that important lol.
2006-09-30 08:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Howdy Viktoria,
Humans are also animals. As animals, we have two instincts that are still imprinted in our genes. These are the "will to survive" and the "will to reproduce". Men are "visual" animals. We are stimulated to "thoughts of reproduction" by things that we see. It is not the size of the breasts but the cleavage that the breast produce when they are pushed together. The visual sight of this cleavage induces men to think of the lady's other "cleavage". The "cleavage" between the lady's buttocks and its continuous connection to the vulva. When you wear a low cut top and the guys swarm around you, they take glancing looks at your cleavage and imagine what your other "cleavage" looks like and what it is hiding....your "charms". This is strictly from the animal viewpoint and some guys will tell different. But, deep down this is what motivates men and we really do not have any control over it. If your sister wants to get the same attention that you get, all she has to do is wear clothing that draws attention to her waist. (tank tops, hip-hugger jeans, whale tail undies, etc,) because this is the part of the female that guys really interested in and the real female "cleavage" that we fantasize about Feel free to ask again.
2006-09-30 09:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by TexasDreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the men who are "boob men" are just mindless, immature jerks. They care more about a womans body than her personality or intelligence. These would be the men I'd stay away from. I mean, its okay to appreciate beauty and even breasts, but men who ONLY care about boobs aren't worth any womans time. You can find these men at Hooters and strip clubs. If you are dating a boy like this, i'd suggest you find a real MAN who isn't intimidated by what ever else a woman has to offer (such as brains)
2006-09-30 22:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Victoria, your question contains the assumption that all men find large breasts important. This is not neccessarily the case. Many men, (myself included) actually prefer small-breasted women. Perhaps we have fewer mother issues.
In any case, men like breasts because for the most part, we don't have them. Most heterosexuals are attracted to those physical features of the opposite sex that are most UNLIKE their own physical features. Please tell me you're not just learning this now unless you're under 12.
2006-09-30 07:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's because those nitwit social scientists of the 1950s and 60s convinced women to quit breastfeeding. Some of us never got past that.
2006-09-30 07:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it falls into the category of rare and unusual finds. There are very few women with curvy bodies, and pleasant faces...so when men see the big boobs on a pretty girl, who isn't fat, they respond to a rare opportunity. Same thing with long flowing locks from shampoo commercial. Unusual.
2006-09-30 07:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by steelypen 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Only women with large breast think that. I dont like a large breasted women. Anything over a C cup is just "nasty". I'm thinking ahead. Gravity will kick you hard when your older
2006-09-30 07:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because some men never grow up and stay immature for too long.
2006-09-30 08:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys wanna have fun!!!
Kidding. It is not important which size they are.
It is more important, what the girl is doing with them....
Sorry. I think this is a "silly" question.
2006-10-01 00:25:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋