Last night when my husband and I went to bed. I started loving on him and trying to get him turned on, but he just pushed me away. Said he wanted to get some sleep. So, I turned over and left him alone.
So, this morning when we were awake laying in the bed I started doing the same things to him. He pushed me away again. Said he needed to wake up first. So, I got up and left him alone.
What do you think? Is he gay or something? I know he isnt' cheating on me. Maybe he's thinking of it? To tell you the truth I'm thinking of it too because I ain't getting none!!
2006-09-30 06:43:37 · 22 answers · asked by Carrie! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off you are a beautiful woman. I think that there maybe some underlying issues..For instance he could have problems on the job he isn't discussing with you. Besides this he may be having sexual hangups..who knows.
Try and ask him " Whats the problem" and demand a sincere answer. Let him know you want to be openly honest. This will help you in making a decision regarding sleeping elsewhere. This way you wont have to cheat because you have discussed your options if he doesnt do his "DUTY"
2006-09-30 06:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by slender1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off cheating is a very selfish thing to do. Sure your husband isn't responding the way you would like him to, but cheating makes that better how?!! Oh, I get it some strange man, who you has no marital commitment to you will make you feel loved...that's what you think huh? WRONG! The best thing you can do is talk to your husband, it's very possible he has something that's really stressing him out, men are internal, woman express stress, and other emotions external. The more something bothers a man the more he closes up about it.
Put sex on the back burner for just a minute, give your Hubby just a little space for a few days, then set a really nice mood in the house, candles, easy music, buy a home foot spa thingy, give him a pedicure, and while your rubbing his feet ask him what's been on his mind lately, chances are he will open up to you. If he likes to have a sip of something every now an then have that ready on ice......and a bangin meal of course!!
Good luck.
2006-09-30 06:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a little strange for a man to say no to sex but sometimes....just like the ladies in our lives....we just don't want to. Best thing is to talk to him about this...maybe he is stressed out about something at work. Stress can be a real pain for the sex life. Just ask him Hon whats going on between us? and take it from there. Don't got and cheat on him as no one should resort to cheating.
If things are that bad then try to get him to go with you to get help.
2006-09-30 06:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you are 20 and a mother of 2?? What a sl*t! No wonder he does not want to sleep with you. He is prob cheating on you with some other women. At least I hope he is....god I hate women like you!!! Poor kids.
Oh and you are starting to get a little FAT!!!! Lay off the ho ho's
2006-09-30 17:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on someone is NEVER the answer to any thing. What if he isn't cheating on you, then you just made the biggest mistake that any one could possibly do. All genders, at some point, do no think about sex no matter how much they love the other person. Talk to him about it first before doing any thing drastic.
2006-09-30 06:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say he is gay...but i do think he could have ED (erectile dysfunction) or maybe he could be cheating on you...you just don't know about...
but i think that if you did cheat on him just b/c you need some sex..ask yourself would it be worth it?...there are things you need to consider.. std...unwanted pregnancy...and the guilt...of doing such...especially if you have sex w/someone that you're not emotionally connected to could put you in a different place than where you are now....so consider the consequecnes...So would it be worth it?
2006-10-02 09:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by emotional misstres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn’t tell me how long both of you have had sex? If he never had sex with you then your first guess is positive (He is a gay) If you had sex for several months and were happy for several months and all of sudden if he start this behavior your second guess is positive (He start cheating). In this case there is another chance; he may suspect you are cheating. If guy feel his wife is cheating then he reluctant to have sex with her, it’s obvious.
2006-09-30 06:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've sen your 360 a few times, and your sexy as he-ll. He must be getting some some where else or he has emotional issues he needs to sort through. Need a stand in, lol.
2006-09-30 09:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's insecure. I have the same problem with my girlfriend but she's the one who won't do it. We had a massive row and she said she feels ugly and unattractive and i don't make her feel like a woman, jeez.
So maybe he's a sensitive guy?? Don't make him feel like a woman though that wont help.
You could always husband swap
2006-09-30 06:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get this insecure inside of 24 hours?
Maybe the poor guy has stomach cramps or something...
Or maybe you smell.
2006-10-02 09:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Salami and Orange Juice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋