2006-09-30 06:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me ask you a question, are you happy about being overweight? If not, than how can you expect to find someone else who is. If you are overweight, but you love your body, you take pride in your looks, and don't try to hide under big clothes or by trying to look thinner than you are by constantly wearing black, than you will put out an aura of self confidence and beauty that will shine like a beacon and attract any man who wants a good woman. But if you put out an aura of , this girls insecure, look at her hiding herself in photos, does she think that the color black is a body eraser, then why would i want someone who hates herself ,and is going to put all the burden of her entire happiness on me. See what I'm saying. What you feel about yourself , on the inside, and the way you present yourself on the outside, is either going to attract or detract whatever you want in life. You have to be happy with who you are right now, cause if you're not, it's time to make the changes necessary to become that person you'll love and be happy with alone, before you ever meet a man, then he'll just be icing on the cake, instead of who you are when you are with him. Love yourself and love will come to you.
2006-09-30 07:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by mainah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dublin Guy is a real MORON! An over weight person will find love the same way an anorexic person would find love. There is no "way" to find love. It'll just happen. By the way, there are many, many people out there that are not the same shape as you that will LOVE your shape! Just because someone seems fit or skinny doesn't mean they aren't looking for someone like YOU.
2006-09-30 13:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Herb R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw hun,
There is love for everyone,,fat,skinny,ugly,short,,trust me,,an overweight person is just as loveable as anyone else on this earth.
As a matter of fact,,some of your overweight people end up with the best lovers then the so called socialy excepted kind of people.
2006-09-30 13:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by ladydi_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I'm overweight. Sometimes I have 2 wear plus sizes, but I have a boyfriend... Just believe in yourself and start searching! And remember, looks aren't everything.
Good luck!
2006-09-30 13:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Barney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By finding someone who really wants to get to know them, as cliche as it sounds. Never give up! And remember, if you are unhappy with yourself, you can lose weight, but only do it if you want to, not for someone else!
2006-09-30 13:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by buffyfan80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sthere are guys out there that love nothing but plus size girls.don't let the size stop you, hold your head high,i bet you look just as good a those skinny girl.you go girl work what you got.
2006-09-30 13:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by queenmidas1014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the same as anyone else. When the time is right that special person will come along if it is meant to be.
2006-09-30 13:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its similar to any body else.nothing special has to be done
2006-10-01 14:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the gym
2006-09-30 13:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
like everyone else? lol
2006-09-30 13:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by loser.freak.222 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋