i have been with my bf for a year and lately we been lacking "romance"..acutally he has.. for our one year he didnt do anything for me! and i made him a big collague..he also yells/cusses at me i hate it!..my bfs very rich and its nice that he buys me stuff, but he doesnt make me sweet stuff! well my coworker made me realize something because..hes very poor =/ but hes VERY NICE! we had a good convo and hes such a great hearted person..i offered him a ride home because he normally takes the bus and he has to walk 20 mins home..and he lives right by me..so i offered..he was VERy appreciative..and it made me realize..gosh..for someone who doesnt have something,,they are REALLY NICE and dont take things for granted..he was really nice to my mom too.. on the other hand..my bf is very quiet..and my mom likes the guys who go like..OOH HI HOW ARE YOU aldfj..but my bf just goes hi..or is blahblah there on the phone.. what should i do?..ami just staying with my bf? just to be with him?
2006-09-30 06:24:27 · 4 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's more to life than money. And you can't put a price on true happiness.
2006-09-30 06:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world would you stay with someone that doesn´t appreciate you,who doesn´t show love,who yells and cusses you???Just tell me why would you do that?because he is goodlooking?because he is very rich? Money is important but Happiness even more.after some time you will get frustrated and nervous all the time,you won´t know how to handle this thing anymore,actually not even now you don´t know what to do...don´t let yourself fall in this trap,cause it won´t do YOU any good.
Look there is the other guy,he is nice,he treats you well,he respects your mother,respects you,and so on.maybe he isn´t so pretty,and yes he doesn´t have a fancy car...but you can never know how things change in time...ok and even if you won´t date this guy that treats you right for any reason,but there are millions other guys that would love to have a girl like you by their side,so don´t waste your time anymore,cause you will waste it with hate and regrets,go and search for real love...for your happiness.
2006-09-30 13:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself what you want in a relationship, and what you need in a relationship in the future. Even if your boyfriend or your cowoker doesn't fit this picture I think you'll be just fine. Remember there's plenty of guys out there, you just have to find them. Lots of luck.
2006-09-30 13:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by burgertime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should let dis dude go, it's obvious he doesnt respect u all that much, real love, isnt like dat, and money is good, but if he dont got love he aint got nothin'!!!! Seriously dump his A** u deserve better! or try talkin it out, and if he dont get it, or refuses to change u kno wut u gotta do!
2006-09-30 13:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋