OK I'll tell you the whole story but you have to read it to answer my question kk?
So I was friends with this girl in grade 5 (it wasn't really a friend she just sat beside me and asked me for stuff) so she was kind of like a friend but I've never really been her friend before. So one day I didn't finish a tiny little thing and she kept talking about it and saying it to my face! So one day I got fed up with her and yelled at her. She just walked away and never talked to me again. Now I think that her and her so called "CLICK" is talking trash about me behind my back. Saying stuff like "She dresses wierd and doesn't know how to play soccer." I don't want people to think of me like this! What should I do?
I'm so confused and I don't know what to do anymore! PLZ help me. Tanx so much!!!......
2006-09-30 06:07:18 · 13 answers · asked by Vanessa<3 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OH now I'm in grade 7 and her click wears "Abercrombie and Fitch, American Eagle, TNA and Aritzia!!!
2006-09-30 06:08:03 · update #1
Sorry I really don't know why I said what they wear. I just guess that they think what I wear is too geeky for them...
2006-09-30 06:11:48 · update #2
Leave them alone. Cliques can be aggrivating, I know how you feel. There are so many cliques in my school its crazy, and guess what? It only gets worse as you get into high school. But you do learn to deal. Stick with the people that you enjoy being around and who like you, and forget about the people who don't. They are losers to even make fun of you just because of what you wear when they don't know the real you. So why care about them? Once they mature they will realize how stupid they were to do that. And if you don't follow their lead by being a nice person to everyone and not caring what people think about you, it will pay off in the end. Good luck :).
2006-09-30 06:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
im in 7th grade 2. last year all this stuff started happening to me and i cared SO MUCH! i just wanted ppl to like me cuz i didnt no ANYONE at my new school. this year, i learned how to ignore what they think(for the most part). and if u tell ppl that it's not true, then ur REAL friends will believe u. clothes are nothing. at the end of last year there was a clique(one person in the clique used to be my best friend and a cheer leader) and they hated me cuz i wore A&F and AE. i kept wearing it, just dont care about what other ppl think....now that is. but about my 6th grade story, on the first day, i got in to it. there was a really popular girl that was more "developed" than the rest of us. so she was my friend, throughout the year she got into trouble and we got in fights(not physical) and became friends. then at the beginning of this year we were friends, again! and there was a girl that left my school in 6th grade and she came to my door after not seeing eachother for a year. she said that the "developed" girl was sreading rumors that I SAID that she left the school for a reason that is not true. the "developed" girl ALSO spread a rumor to me that the girl that came to my door said something bad about me. but last year had so much drama. the "developed" girl left the school a couple weeks ago. she moved.
2006-09-30 15:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by .oh snap.london bridge.oh snap. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do ... she's with her buds and they'll talk trash about everyone they can ... especially you because you hurt her. Just because she wears designer clothes doesn't make her a princess ... she's mean and rude and you need to stop giving her so much power, she can only bother you if you let her, ignore her and her friends and keep with your own friends.
2006-09-30 13:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should go up to her face and tell her off by saying I don't appreciate u talking about me behind my back. Because I know u wouldn't like it if I talk all that dum stuff.
2006-09-30 13:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ingnore her, she probably doesnt have a life to begin with, or sometimes people bully people just to get away from their own problems. who cares if they were abercrombie? who cares if noone likes u?u still have family, friends come and go. if u like urself than ur better off.
2006-09-30 13:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you "didn't finish a tiny little thing"?
The word is spelled "clique"
You will have to spread counter-rumors about how good you are at soccer. And call her Mom and complain.
2006-09-30 13:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares what other people think? Ignore them & they will go away, the more they see that it bothers you the more they'll talk about you.Good luck!
2006-09-30 13:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go kick her *** and see if she keeps talking trash and let me know how that works out. it will work about 95% of the time. then you have to do it again.
2006-09-30 13:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by chris e 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore them it will make them mad if they see that you don't care.
2006-09-30 13:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Je t'aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares.. ignore her and her friends
2006-09-30 13:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋