relationship even though shes married to a man anyway.how can she say she doesnt want me seeing other women?
2006-09-30 06:01:22 · 22 answers · asked by lisasbarred 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no im not in love with her.she picks me up in a brand new bmw and she has 2 children
2006-09-30 06:36:55 · update #1
I think she's having her cake and eating it, darling. Sack her off! Controlling b*tch! Find someone who likes you for you.
I NEVER do marrieds, male or female. It's just wrong.
2006-09-30 06:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with other people here who are asking you whyyou are involved with a married woman. If she is not coming out she is never going to leave him. That is why I would never want to get involved with a married woman. It is the same as heterosexual women getting involved with married men. You are just setting yourself up to be hurt.
You may argue that you love her. But do you love yourself? If so just walk away. I know it won't be easy but this is a 'go nowhere 'relationship. How much time will you put into it before you find this out?
2006-09-30 06:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by Justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of the comments expessed on this issue are quite repulsive. I was once in a long term relationship with a man(8 yrs), and had loads of affairs with women, as i always knew that i was gay. It was not possible for me to leave the relationship with the father of my children(family politics). Your girlfriend is wrong to tell you to commit to her, especially if she is married. but, in all fairness maybe she is trapped. I think you should just tell her how you feel about the situation, and find somebody who is available. but whatever you do. dont make her feel worthless.
2006-09-30 07:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would you want an open realationship with someone like that is it because she has a brand new BMW come on shes married with children why would you want a women with kids i say hell no to that
2006-09-30 06:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that to her, that is different. I am sure to me, I would not play along. As long as she is committed to another, why in the world would you settle for such a relationship? Do you have that little self respect? Get on with your life, see who you want..you don't have to tell her everything..I am sure she doesn't tell you everything she does. For that matter, she could well be seeing other women also! Never listen to a cheater..they always lie about everything.
2006-09-30 06:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people are unbelievable aren't they? she has a flash car a hubby who she will NEVER leave and you considering her demands she has all the power a woman could want we read this and initially; think spit full ***** but then do we not say to our fellow women girl power. i think if your not in love with her then whats the big deal?call her bluff and go get someone on the side or say to her your considering using her as a f***k buddy
2006-09-30 10:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by no nonsence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if she is married and living with a man and dating you she is in an open relationship with you and has no right to keep you to herself...
that is selfish
End of story..for that part..
Next.... WHAT THE HELL YOU DOING WITH A STRAIGHT GIRL.. for a lesbian.. that means nothing but pain honey... anytime you mess with a straight girl you will get burned.. I know they have alure.. but think twice about messing with them...
2006-09-30 06:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by RiahWillow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she's no right. If she want's you to be exclusive with her, she should do the decent thing and leave her husband.
Sounds like she's trapped, though. She doesn't want to loose the kids.
But if you don't love her, I'd say stay clear. If she falls for you, and leaves him for you, how will you feel then?
Run, run for the hills.
2006-10-01 02:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by helen g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What r u doing messing with a married woman anyway. She is getting her cake and eating it excuse the pun. You deserve better.
2006-10-01 19:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by kitpoodle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell are you seeing a married woman!!! Dump her or you will both end up ruining a lot of peoples lives! She's not your girlfriend, she's someones wife!!!
2006-09-30 06:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by bobbi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋