Should I hit her back because I haven't yet, do you think me hitting back will stop her from hurting me so much because of her mood swings.
2006-09-30 05:55:15 · 31 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you punk
2006-09-30 06:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't hit her back, call the police on her. She's not having mood swings, she has anger problems and needs to get herself some anger management help. NO ONE deserves to be hit, man or women. I know it must be difficult for you being a man and being hit by a women. It's good that you have not hit her back. I think if you do, she would call the cops on you right away. Your wife is taking advantage here. She thinks just because she is a women hitting a man, that she can get away with it. Abuse is abuse is abuse. And that is what she is putting you through. Don't let her. If you can't talk to her and she won't get help, professional help, then cut your loses and leave her. You deserve so much better.
2006-09-30 13:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hits you because she knowes you wouldnt hit her back. I would say hit her back, but she will prob call the cops and then you will be going to jail. Take her on a trip out of the country and then when she hits you hit her back, mexico is pretty lienant towards abusive men-but she would probly beat the hell out of you, and then the entire town would be talking about what a wuss you are.
No you shouldnt hit her, just leave her. You can find a new girl easily.
2006-09-30 13:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe divorce may be the right if she has no love or respect for you I am a woman and I have been abused the best advise I can give you is don't put up with it-it won't stop! Hitting back is not what you should do it would only get you in trouble! Go see a lawyer and have her removed from your home if it is yours or leave and and put this experience behind you!!!
2006-09-30 13:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit her back NO! Restrain her so she can not hit you yes. There is no reason for ANYONE to be hitting the one they "say" They love. If I where you I would call the police and get them to remove her from the home and file charges against her....and get her some help. If she wont go for help then she can stay away.
I commend you for NOT hitting her Best of luck Bud! Hang in there
2006-09-30 13:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave her. Hitting back will not make things better.
If she does not have the mental capacity to understand that she is hurting you psychologically as well, she should not even be given a second chance.
Her actions show no respect, dignity or love. She is not worth fighting for.
2006-09-30 12:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO !!!!! Dont hit her back because then she will have you arrested for hitiing her.You should have HER arrested for hitting you as well.Alot of times the abuser is the man but in some cases(like yours)the abuser is the woman.NOBODY deserves to be hit on like a damn punching bag no matter what sex you are.My ex-husband used to hit me if i done anything wronge.One day he hit me because i fixed something he didnt want for dinner,I finailly got the stregnth to leave his stupid ***.Now i am hppily married to my "prince charming".This man treats me like a queen and he has showed me what it is like to have some 1 really love me.Please call your local police because nobody deserves to be punched.
2006-09-30 13:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by La Princessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of man would hit back on a woman? And what kind of woman 'beats' her husband? If her mood swings are that violent, she definitely needs medical/physcological help. Get her to her gynocologist now!!!
2006-09-30 13:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really horrible. You shouldn't hit her back unless she is doing some serious damage and you need to defend your body. Call a counseling hotline for more information. She sounds a little sick in the head so she might have to go get help for her erratic emotional and violent tendencies. When she isn't upset at you one day, approach her about it.
2006-09-30 12:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Eri T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something! Don't let her hit you. Restrain her from hitting you and if you have to, call the ER or take her to the hospital or the police. She can't abuse you like that.
I hope she's not hitting you coz you're hurting her though....
2006-09-30 12:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should never hit a woman period.
That is unless she's built like a wrestler..then that's a different story..
Try talking to her, never try to handle something violently..
And if that doesn't work...you just have to move on.
You dont need that kind of abuse in life..you seem like a good person.
2006-09-30 12:58:53 · answer #11 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋