hi all hope you can help and quickley. i am seperating from my partner he has agreed that if i give him half of the profit in our house he will leave today which is great. However he wants a letter from me stating that he can stop paying the mortgage which is fine as i have to pay it anyway when he is gone. what i wondered is does any one have a letter they could post for me or give me a web site that i can get a letter from . i need the wording to state that this is a full and final payment that he has no further right to the house and no future payments or claims to the property basically i get my home he gets his money and that an end to it
2006-09-30 05:54:41 · 18 answers · asked by mulsey_uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the only way you can do this is to see a solicitor... he will make sure it is legally binding as well as being a witness for you cos your ex could turn round and say he's had nothing from you and wants his share again if you ever come to sell the house... PLEASE you MUST get legal advice on this dont do ANYTHING regarding the house without it...
2006-09-30 16:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by christine301173 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in the UK and have a joint mortgage then you be jointly responsible for the mortgage and even if you give him a letter saying he doesn't have to pay, this will carry no weight with the bank or building society that lent you both the money. The only way to sort this out legally is to transfer the property and mortgage into your name which will take time.
You really ought to consult a Solicitor on this one or it could all backfire on you. If you really need to do something urgently then just write a simple letter of intent, stating what the two of you have agreed but you are taking a big risk if you do this.
2006-09-30 06:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off all if he is just a partner and the mortgage is in your sole name then you will not have to pay him a dime, if it comes to court it can be seen as contributing to household costs a a regular tenant would. As the whole 'common law husband/wife' crap has been abolished years and years ago. I think that splitting the house just so he gets out off your hair is not a wise decision because you only have his word on it. However, he wants documentation from you?
Go to seek professional advice on what to do. The last thing you need is a bad breakup and then to be homeless.
2006-09-30 10:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by June 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont write or sign anything!!!!
Find a local solicitor. Ring round a selction first because a lot of practices them give the first half hour consultation free!....but not all of them do! (Make sure you ask if this is the case before booking an appointment) Write down everything you want to discuss and make sure you have all fiqures at hand eg, mortgage, salaries, incoming and outgoing.
This way you can make an informed choice on what YOU want to do.
Best of luck
2006-09-30 07:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by monza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 04:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately get some legal advice. This is a hard enough time for you as it is without making a mistake with some wording. I wouldnt considered doing anything else no matter what he says. Hope it works out okay for you.
2006-09-30 10:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Laura G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a legal expert in marriage and divorce, if you pay the mortgage anyway your husband maybe only entitled to a smaller amount. I think your husband knows this and wants it this way. Go and see what your legal right is, i suspect that it maybe a bit different to what you think it is now.
2006-09-30 06:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get legal advise first as I believe he will still be liable unless you both go to your financial institution that is providing your mortgage, and have the details changed into your name. Don't go alone on this get that advise.
2006-09-30 21:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by Des 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a solicitor, the money spent will save you a fortune when he comes back wanting a share of your house.
2006-09-30 06:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do any type of a letter until you consult with a lawyer. You need to protect your assets legally before doing anything.
2006-09-30 06:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by cee cee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋