I have just found out that my husband lies to me. He has incurred huge credit bills amounting to S$50.000.00. He was almost declare bankrupt because of this. He is crazy about cars and die die must buy new car despite his debt. We had big fights and quarrels because of this. Now I don't care about him anymore. I pay for almost everything for the family and my 2 kids, 9 and 6. I really regret getting married and wanted to divorce him but doesn't want to affect my boys. What should I do?
2006-09-30 05:33:57 · 6 answers · asked by Illusion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My answer is the same as last time you posted this. Here's the copy and paste:
It doesn't matter if you divorce him or not, you are still accountable for half the bills he has ran up.
I suggest couples therapy for your communication issues and financial therapy for your money problems.
2006-09-30 05:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go and talk to a mediator,and put in for the divorce and tell him all the bills you have and who pays what in your agreement and who has the kids and visitation right,works out better than a judge sometimes.
2006-09-30 05:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i think he's more concern about he's face, rather than family matters...
I belief divorce is not a problem. But if you initiate the divorce, you have to take care of the kids then..
Not to worry, you dont have to foot any of he's silly bills...
2006-10-01 22:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember girl, his debt can end up being your debt. if you do divorce him make that part of the divorce(his credit debt). sometimes it works. Your kids are strong im sure. if he lies to you he will lie to them. You just might end up with boys that lie too. good luck, been there!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 05:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by sta_war 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If between the considerable different is going incorrect in life-one shouldn't circulate away him on my own! attempt to make him understand-how life could be perplexing forward with lots debit stability? do not circulate away him interior the lurch like this and circulate away-marriage is sharing , worrying and loving-attempt to alter and make him understand for the toddlers' sake.
2016-10-15 09:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him.
2006-09-30 10:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋