I have just found out that my husband lies to me. He has incurred huge credit bills amounting to S$50.000.00. He was almost declare bankrupt because of this. He is crazy about cars and die die must buy new car despite his debt. We had big fights and quarrels because of this. Now I don't care about him anymore. I pay for almost everything for the family and my 2 kids, 9 and 6. I really regret getting married and wanted to divorce him but doesn't want to affect my boys. What should I do?
2006-09-30 05:32:04 · 4 answers · asked by Illusion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go ahead and divorce him for your kids sake
2006-09-30 05:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by jasmine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If one of the partner goes wrong in life-one should not leave him alone! Try to make him understand-how life would be difficult ahead with so much debit balance?
Don't leave him in the lurch like this and go away-marriage is sharing , caring and loving-try to adjust and make him understand for the kids' sake.
2006-09-30 05:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by anil m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is dishonest in one thing be sure that there are also other things that he is hidding from you.
If you have tried working these things out with him and are sure you want a divorce get it.
Kids are happier when both their parents are healthy and happy apart than miserable and depressed but together.
2006-09-30 05:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you divorce him or not, you are still accountable for half the bills he has ran up.
I suggest couples therapy for your communication issues and financial therapy for your money problems.
2006-09-30 05:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋