why do you only think about the body instead of getting to know the girl. I know some boys who only want a dumb, clueless, fine girl to be with, instead of a alright smart girl.
2006-09-30 05:22:24 · 19 answers · asked by mickeymousegirl00 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, because physical appearance is the only communication you do to many at once without talking, so many guys will start there, and then hope the girl is funny, etc.
Also very few girls have the killer personality to make up for so so looks. I myself go for the total package, if a girl is funny, etc that can make up for a lot.
2006-09-30 05:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, some males are pretty shallow, looking only on the exterior. Some girls are not much better, chasing after the "jocks". Possibly that's why some guys want to be jocks? Beats me. I never was one. When I was in school, I did not meet up with many girls who were hungering to be with an intelligent, non-athletic male. In fact, I have met darned few since either.
2006-09-30 12:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by harridan5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The trouble is in your wording. MEN don't just look at the outside. BOYS are too worried about the looks of the girl. MEN look beneath the skin and see the person on the inside. MEN are more interested in the person's personality to see if she is a compatible partner. BOYS just want a pretty face and skinny body to impress their friends. They don't care about her personality.
2006-09-30 12:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
not all men are created equal sweetie, some just want a dumb girl to have sex with,, some Men want a smart girl who enjoys sex but can also carry on a conversation after the 2 minutes is over with,,
2006-09-30 12:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well sweetheart. i'm not a guy, but i am bisexual so i know exactly what's going on- i've even done it. It all has to do with maturity and popularity. people want a hot date and popularity with the school/work/etc. trust me-- after high school and the first year of college, most men change. that it why i say dating in high school is incredibly stupid.
not everyone is created equal. there are differences in minds and hearts. finding the true one you love will come after high school.
i know many men who are very chivalrousand kind in their demeanor. you just have to look for the shy ones sometimes.
2006-09-30 12:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A sweety i'm digging your icon(pic). Well most guy are look that if not all. Myself, i do like a nice body but shes got to have a brain you know. I have to be able to talk with her but maybe that comes with age, I dont know.
2006-09-30 12:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by diran o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that the way a person looks can tell you who they are.So not all men are just intrested in looks.I won't lie,I like to see beautiful women,what man don't.A gay one maybe.Anyway,I think to be with a girl you have to like her from the inside out,not the outside in.
2006-09-30 12:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by nick j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the age of the boy. Men love the age difference and the beautiful minds
2006-09-30 12:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by Freddy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Boys do this dear, not men. Aim your way towards someone with the same goals.
2006-09-30 12:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I buy a shirt it's the style and look that first catches my attention... not to say that I don't have some plain Tees that have been favorites... but that's only after I wore them for a while.
2006-09-30 12:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by joeiacovino 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋