if you're really in love, should you be thinking about someone else?
2006-09-30 05:16:53 · 15 answers · asked by Mand 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know what? You could be in Love, as in love as you can be, but you may still have fantasies (wonders) of other people, if it's something that You know that you're not going to act on, something simple, then it's okay. Everyone wonders sometimes, there's nothing wrong with it, but if there's something wrong in the relationship and your wondering, it may be that the winds are changing...And no you don't have to think of your baby every minute, that's psycho, you need to have a life.
2006-09-30 05:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not love. I think that you can love someone and not be 'in love' with them. You love your friends right? Same kind of love. If you mind starts to wander then it might be time to move on.
2006-09-30 12:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. If you really love someone your mind will not wander. Your eyes may wander to appreciate an attractive person, but your mind is committed to your loved one.
2006-09-30 12:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends how long you've been together. After a few years I think it's normal for your mind to wander now and then - as long as your body doesn't follow suit.
2006-09-30 12:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by crosbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. because you are using your mind and think about the person you are in love.. However after years you probably have fantasies just don't act on it
2006-09-30 12:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be thinking about someone else when you are supposedly in love but you are only human if you do think about someone else once and awhile. But if it is all the time... than I think that you might not be in love, just telling yourself that you are.
2006-09-30 12:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by j_beyer69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love them, but sounds like the chemistry is slightly off balance. Find away to make it more excitable.
2006-09-30 12:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence! Are you looking for a bbd? bigger better deal.
2006-09-30 12:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really just depends on HOW your thinking about them. But usually it doesn't matter, everyone has their own fantasies.
2006-09-30 12:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were really in love, u would think about that person every waking minute...
2006-09-30 12:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Girl♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋