She still takes good care of me just for the asking in a number of ways.I just want to see her have fun too.She has to take pain meds for her neck might be the problem.But she still uses the neck a lot to please me so I dont think it is a problem with relationship.
2006-09-30 04:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Nevada S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pain medication is a HUGE factor in this trust me I know! I had 3 surgeries in the last year and WOW I went from 3 times a day to like once a month and then I did it for him!!!! Once I got off the pain meds WOW the same day the aprk was back full force!!!!! Ask her dr if she can go on a pain liller called ultram its a non narcotic- helps great for pain and DOES not mess up your sex life! And remember always: Men r turned on more by the PHYSICAL wgile us women need the romace-the need to feel special-loved and needed! She needs ALOT of sweet words and tenerness! In my opinion sex is more for the guy if he is a master of FOREPLAY hell we dont even need the actual sex! lol If u get my drift! Give her lots of extra tenderness and touches and kisses! Give her a candlelight bubble bath and massage with scented lotion! She will come alive in your hands!!!!
2006-09-30 05:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be creative women get tired of the same ol mundane sex. If it doesnt interest her she isnt gonna reach that great spot. She may be open to pleasing you (bend for a friend)but she still may not be happy sexually. Try something new. Go to a sex shop or internet order a toy for her. then use it on her and make her feel like she is the only girl for you.
2006-09-30 11:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Languastina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try being more loving. Of course she is too irritated and down for sex with you.... She doesn't need an herb to keep pleasing you. She needs you to leave her alone for a while. Let her recharge. Do some things SHE likes....
2006-09-30 11:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is on pain meds she shouldnt take ANY herbs, they can be dangerous. Have her talk to her doctor, maybe he can switch the kind of meds she takes or have some other helpful advice for her
2006-09-30 11:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lori R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a medical doctor can help in this matter she may have other underlying health issues that are yet to be discovered like diabetes hope you both are well
2006-09-30 12:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by dovesofpeace56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do a classic night of pleasing her.. i mean maybe, a bubble bath to relax her neck ... message and go from there..
2006-09-30 11:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by shelly v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes have her try some zestra it is a natural oil lube that warms up it is some killer stuff not bad for you either you both will be thanking me for a long long time for this advice!!
2006-09-30 11:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should try pleasing her for a change? ask her. sommunication is good...she needs to be totally relaxed.
2006-09-30 11:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's tired, try pampering her .
2006-09-30 11:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by lesuiremike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋