Part II - of can you please put the toilet seat back down...Is that too much to ask?

Question

He won't put it down even though his woman and daughters have asked politely, have explained the why's of the requst, have complained, have gotten extremely irritated, for years! - It seems he won't put that seat down just because I asked, or just to irritate me, or more suited to him, he just hates me to tell him what to do - even if it is a polite, simple little request - many, many times over the years! Now it is full blown irritating to me! Especially since I discovered last summer that he can remember and be considerate if he chooses to. He was put out my house (other reasons) for a month and sometimes had to sleep outdoors. When I let him back in, I noticed that - the toilet seat was put back down, the big lazy boy chair was pushed back to the wall instead of leaving it in the middle of the living room floor in everyone's way (wouldhave to walk around it to get to the kitchen and dininng rm) when he went out, etc. It told me he hears and remembers! Til he got his foot back in.

Answer 1

Women complain about the toilet seat not being put back down, isnt it just as reasonable to ask why you dont leave the seat up??
It is not automatically a guys responsibility to do everything a woman wants.

Answer 2

definite, I requested a similar question of a father who had 2 sons. In his homestead they continually positioned the seat down even even with the actuality that adult males were the majority through 3 to a million. possibly there might want to be a foot lever like that to open bins. That way, the lid will slowly crumple once you're taking your foot off the pedal. and then anybody is chuffed ... likely. I instructed this guy that possibly one answer might want to be that his spouse might want to positioned up the seat after a pee, and the adult males might want to positioned it down after a pee. That sounds honest ... would not it ... it also sounds somewhat preposterous. I also understand a guy who were given grew to develop into on through his lady friend telling him to diminish the seat on the lavatory ... My guess he loved being put in a submissive position, and placed it somewhat sexual. So be careful once you tell this to some adult males :)

Answer 3

Honey when they get thier foot back in the door they ALWAYS go back to thier old ways after a wekk or two. They just get so used to the fact the they do what they want no matter who they irritate in the mean time. You either have to deal with his ways..which most of us do when they are in a relationship..or throw him out if you DONT want to deal with it.

Answer 4

I don't know the first part, but i can tell you what i did to stop from fall-in in... I took nail polish and painted PUT ME DOWN on the back of the seat so when he lifts it he can see it ( only him ) that way if you have to remove it use nail polish remover....

Answer 5

Invite me over for the night,I PROMISE to put the seat down(-;

Answer 6

You have to get one where the seat doesn't stay up. He will have to hold it when he pees and his only choice when he is finished is to put it down.

Answer 7

If he irritates you that much, put him back out.

Answer 8

you have WAAYYY to much time on your hands if you spend your it freaking out about tiolet seats, life is too short

Answer 9

Its moves on hinges..up and down..if it is up..put it down..does it take that much muscle or thought to do that?

Answer 10

that's just men they use the bathroom, eat, watch sports center and scratch their ***. what do u expect right?