My wife recently left me, I think for another man. She says "i still love and care about you" but she treats me like crap and has shut out me & her step children, never calls or anything. Should I just give up on her and move on????
2006-09-30 04:10:38 · 16 answers · asked by carpet man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You bet.....If she really loves and cares about you, she wouldn't have left......Think about it....You have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and find someone who will be there when the river rises...Not someone who will cut and run when thier feet start getting wet....Sorry bro....Good luck
2006-09-30 04:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes. As hard as it is for you and the kids, it's best to move on with your life. If you just sit around and wait for her to call or come back (which she probably won't do unless she is broke or in trouble) that will just make your life more miserable and you'll become bitter & angry. And besides, even if she does come back, she has already left you once, so she probably will again if she get the chance. You will be a much stronger person emotionally if you just keep moving ahead and don't look back.
2006-09-30 04:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should move on.. Obviously she only cares about the new man she is with. I dont know the circumstances but if she has shut your children out,,then shes no good period. Let her go and forget about her and move on. Take care of your children,,you dont need someone in your life like that.
2006-09-30 04:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a marriage?? If so, no you should not... she should be as serious about this as you. This is not something she or you should give up on. They are hard, but keep trying! Let her know that you need to talk, think about everything you want to say to her, and what she has been doing that is bothering you! Once you tell her give her time to tell you the things she needs "fixed" before she will concentrate on teh relationship again! Listen to her, and try these things ( while she is trying to do the things you asked). If this fails I would reevaluate the relationship and whether or not it is worth that much pain ( especially involving your children).
2006-09-30 04:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by cheer8ko 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a good person, go on and dont think anything about her.. most people who do that dont care if they hurt you or not once you move on she will realize what a mistake she has made and then you can tell her to buzz off when she calls saying she's sorry.
2006-09-30 04:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by shelly v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....move on!!
We all say....I still love you and care about you...especially just after we have been with another man.
A lot of times...we think that will make you feel better about being screwed over.
2006-09-30 04:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by sent_from_heaven2me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. Life is short. She betrayed you and left you for another man. She moved on while she was married to you, shame on her. Shame on you, if you put up with that and want to make it work. There are so many women out in this world if you are patient she will find you. Good Luck.
2006-09-30 04:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! YES!!!!! YES!!!!
This ia dead issue that you are wasting time on. She is not worth all of this and you have to ask yourself that question. Is she worth this.? The answer is NO... You can find somene better and someone that will make you happy. Love is something that we give freely and sometimes people take it without giving any love back and that is wrong. You are better off without her. The hurt you feel will go away with time.
2006-09-30 04:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! I feel sooo sorry for you! I think if she still loves and cares about you then I think she's lying! She wouldn't say that then go and leave you! Move on and you'll find somebody that loves you back! God has a plan for you! I hope it all works out! I'll pray for you!
2006-09-30 04:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to cut the strings and move on. You wouldn't want her back after she has been with someone else, would you? Have a little pride in yourself. You deserve to be treated better than this.
2006-09-30 04:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... for your sanity and your children's don't let her come back. She left for some ulterior motive. If you let her come back she will do it again only, because she left you for some reason. Take care of your family and don't think of getting with someone yet. Only because you can handle one problem at a time. When your ready replace your X
2006-09-30 04:16:32 · answer #11 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋