how much do you really know and trust your partner? would they ever lie to you again (knowing they have done in the past) would they always stay faithful?
2006-09-30 03:58:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe they say if you love someone trust them but i think once they have cheated on you once its not easy to trust again. It requires a lot of patience and time for both parties to build that trust up again.
2006-09-30 04:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by hoochy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will never be able to trust someone 100%; there will always be temptations and inconveniences that would make you mistrust that person (human nature I suppose).
But I can say it is possible to be 95-98% trustworthy. It's maybe the odd things that may lie on such as forgetting to buy milk, or went to a party when they told you they were working late.
They could be 100% faithful when you known the for about 4 years or so, knowing almost every bit of them. But the are never 100% trustworthy.
If a person is asking you back after being unfaithful I would say you are about 40% in the trust. It would take something like 5 years complete faith to get back on track. I would say you are at the make or break point; it's up to you to decide if he/she is worth it.
2006-09-30 11:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never say that I would trust anyone 100% which is a shame but i don't think you can rely on anyone. I have known people to say I trust my partner but then they have found out they have been sleeping with someone else. If someone has lied to you then how can you trust them totally, the trust is already gone and there will always be a doubt in the back of your head thinking when not if he will do it again.
2006-09-30 11:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner has been unfaithful in the past, I don't think you can ever 100% trust them.
What is that saying "once a cheat, always cheat!" If a person has cheated on you, then it's just not meant to be. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship without trust!
Hopefully you are asking a hypothetical question - if not I hope you work it out - good luck
2006-09-30 11:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Caz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My son for about the first two weeks of his life. Now I say "Gabriel did you put your tie in the toilet?" and he says "no!" and I have to talk to him and tell him that he will get into more trouble for lying then telling the truth, but then I spend forever trying to explain what a lie is to a two year old.
You can't trust anyone 100% bc we all tell lies all the time. My partner just proved it to me the other day when I was upset and she asked what was wrong. I said "nothing, I fine." she said simply "I thought you said you'd never lie to me!" I mean I didn't even think I just said lied but it was a small lie I didn't think it mattered but I does. I feel the same way I ask why she's mad at me and she says she's not. I know she thinks she's trying to keep from hurting me but I know the truth and it hurts.
2006-09-30 11:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by anniemc84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has told his mates something very personal about me before, so no, I will never trust him or anyone else 100%. But I trust him 98% to be faithful, and I trust him to love me, and I trust him for hundreds of things, just around his mates it goes down to about 75%!
2006-09-30 11:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my partner 100% if there's no trust i don't think you can have a relationship, However trust doesn't happen over night.
2006-09-30 11:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by sexyass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is a big word, however how many of us actually trust our partners? I've been with my man 6 months he hasn't ever cheated but its still at the back of my mind when he goes out, i'm never sure what he is going to do. Don't let it bother you lifes too short, if its meant to be its meant to be if not move on......
2006-09-30 11:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by emzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't trust anyone 100% and I don't think this is a bad thing. I've said this to my hubby and it does not affect me in any way.There is no point trying to convince yourself that you trust someone 100%.I don't worry that he would stray, not because I completely trust him but rather I think why worry?If it were to happen then I'd deal with it then. Maybe I'm not insecure - everyone is different.If you worry to that extent maybe you should end the relationship or seek help yourself
2006-09-30 11:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by vonbon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its something you build. For me it seems like sometimes the trust level goes down to 50%. Then it has to be rebuilt. I guess you never know for sure. Its always a risk to trust somebody. Be careful.
If anyone ever says "trust me", DON'T
2006-09-30 11:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋