I can't stand being in school. There's this girl in my class who is perfect. Perfect in every way. Now you have to understand that she's in EVERY CLASS with me, because I go to a private school with only 250 people in it, and you just have the same class every single year. She's friends with everyone, all the 8th graders like her, all the guys like her. I know, just get over it, right? But it's really hard for me because before 4th grade I had all that. Then in fourth grade, just to suddenly lose it to some retard who just decides to barge in, it's really hard for me. I've tried and tried to get better at things, to ace tests like her, to lose weight to get skinny like her, to get guys to like me, I've even tried to be anorexic. I keep telling myself that I'm a failure if what I do isn't better than her. I've tried and tried to break this habit. Please help me?
2006-09-30 03:44:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm in 7th grade, btw, so I've had this problem for 4 years.
2006-09-30 03:45:34 · update #1
I'm in 7th grade and I go to a private school the first thing that pops in your head is...... REVENGE!!!! Look be the bigger person and start hanging out with these people exspecially when she isnt around and act like yourself and all the guys will come running and just sorta' stay away from her unless your friends are around her than go say hey to everybody and start talking to one of them.
2006-09-30 03:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what can i really say.....? I really cant believe that u would try to be anorexic. Thats crazy. U should never try to do that again cuz you could really hurt your body. But anways what i want to tell u...... just be yourself. Thats all that matters! I know that this girl is driving u insane but its not going to help drowning yourself in pain all the time. I'm not saying "get over it" but I swear to you things will get better. Everyone has that one person at their school who they want to be b/c their everything your not. I understand what your feeling b/c i've been that way too but please dont try to be someone ur not suppose to be just be urself thats what makes you... well you! Your a wonderful person and dont let anyone tell u that ur not. I believe u will make the right choice and just let this be. It will all soon end later in ur life. I know that its going to take awhile but i know u can be strong and just let it go. BEST OF WISHES AND GOOD LUCK GIRL!
2006-09-30 04:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal I 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be the best person that you can be. You can't focus on what you interpret other to be or you'll never be happy. If a person were to get into her thoughts they would find that she is just as insecure as the rest of us. Give your self a break, don't put so much pressure on yourself. Stop being involved in behaviors that could hurt you, like extreme dieting. Sounds like your trying to get attention and that is an insult to people who suffer from these disorders.
2006-09-30 03:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Geena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 03:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be others to compare yourself to. The problem is, you should be doing things to improve yourself for you, not to keep up with someone else. She popular, maybe thats because shes actually a nice person. Stop comparing yourself. Accept that life changes everyday and needing to change to be like someone else isnt the healthiest thinking.
2006-09-30 03:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as Quentin Crisp once said "If you keep trying and failing, perhaps failing is your style" If it were not fror losers on this Planet the rest of us would not be winners. We cannot all win at lifes big game, and I would suggest, just possibly, you are not one of us. This is not the end though, Offer guys more of what the others will not do, never say no to ANYONE who wants to use you. There are ways to improve your position. Smile...deep breath...from where you are everything is up x
2006-09-30 04:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i used to be all that before the fourth grade too, but i am not anymore. to tell you the truth, i just got over it and didnt try to be popular. i just hung out with my friends and ignored everyone else who i didnt like. i go to a private school too
2006-09-30 04:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by faerygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing you need to realize is that there is ALWAYS going to be someone skinnier, prettier and smarter than you. ALWAYS, honey...for the rest of your life. You just need to learn to be happy with YOURSELF! That's what matters. If this bothers you that much, you should talk to an adult. But, really, sweetheart, there are WAY more important things in life!!
2006-09-30 03:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by gidget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you try darl u wont acheive anything cos ppl can read that............ as soon as u get over it the sooner things will get better for u.......... wen u dont want attention youl get it cos youl appear as more of a challenge and ppl want wat they cant have so if your hard to get every1 will want u............. TRUST ME IT WORKS so just forget bout her dont give her the satisfaction pretend she doesnt exist and dont start with eatin disorders cos itl ruin your life.... i was a size 8 but wen i started hi school i wasnt happy with that and developed heaps of eatin disordrs throughout hi school. now im size 12 and am strugglin to go bak to ten which wouldnt b a problem if i didnt stuff around with my metabolism at your age so just love yourself n ever1 wil luv u 2 oki doki?
2006-09-30 03:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by amelia h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about her just be your self and have some fun and be a little tough thats how am cool at my school and am also in the 7th grade
2006-09-30 03:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by jane o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋