He told me that we can be a good frined for the rest of our life.
Becasue we have some many similarity. He also said if we were
married, we could go to travel to visit many places. But why he never asks me out for coffee and just said he would like to have a coffe or watch film with female friend, so is that all hints to me that he likes me but I don't want to make a first move to ask a man out for coffee. he did make a lot of coffe for me when we're at work. anyway, when a man said he could be a good friend with you, is that mean you'll never been his girlfriend or your will be. I am confused about what he said sometimes.
2006-09-30 03:23:43 · 12 answers · asked by Rose M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Watch When Harry met Sally and you have your answer.
2006-09-30 03:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Arty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under certain conditions it is possible to be friends with someone of the opposite sex. The fact that he hints at marriage.. makes a lot of coffee for you at work.. speaks of doing things "together" as opposed to doing things "with" you.... sounds like someone who is thinking of being more than a friend.
He doesn't ask you out but he does "hint" at going out; is he shy?.. doesn't seem so..... does he want you to ask so that he won't have to pay?.. well we know he's got a job so that won't work huh;)..... does he know how you "really" feel about him?.. well that we're not sure of are we Rose. I mean, you do not state how you have been responding to these advances; and I wouldn't worry about making the first move.. he seems to have taken care of that. You don't have to ask him out, just suggest that you two go have coffee somewhere; it's not like as if you've never had coffee with him before?:)
Most of the confusion we receive from others, is due to our not making ourselves clear in the first place.
Tlr
2006-09-30 07:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Tooler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married but i met a woman through our kids about 10 years ago and we are very good close friends and there has never been any hint of sexual things between us we are like brother and sister my wife was not cool at first but she knows her well now and she is cool with her as is her partner i would have said no in the past but as it has happened to me i would say yes you can be good friends with the opposite sex also my wife is my best friend ever
2006-09-30 23:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by ralph m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that this man is being very honest with you by saying that you could be good friends for life. I wouldnt read more into his words. I am married, but my best friends are males, and my husband knows that. If you not sure ask him straight out. I am sure he will answer honestly again.
2006-09-30 03:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can!! Stop putting pressure on yourself, and him and you might find that your friendship develops but at the moment just go with the flow.
I've got male friends who i just have coffee with and see occasionally and its just mates. Stop worrying and enjoy your relationship as it stands.
2006-09-30 11:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by ccat14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is a man. We have been friends for nearly ten years and there has never been anything sexual. It's great being friends with a bloke!
2006-09-30 03:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by arwen4838 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds gay he wants a partner for company and not romance keep him as a friend but keep looking for love..
2006-09-30 03:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you are saying i think he likes you a bit to much to be just friends. if yo have just met and he is talking about marriage i would start to worry about him.
2006-09-30 03:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse...i have a guy bestfriend since 1st grade..well, he didn't know that i've loved him ever since..well, anyway....yeah...that's cool...guys keep secrets really good..i mean..when you tell a guy a secret...he will never spill it out..even though he's the most talkative guy you know...;)
2006-09-30 03:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by kireiicutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, not all men look at women as a sex object, they look at them as a good friend. yes you absolutely can.
2006-09-30 03:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋