this girl have been flirting with me for a long time (i like her alot). then her best friend comes up to me and ask me "do u have feelings for her" and i respond "if she wants to know she could ask me herself" and when i get out of the other tools part of the room (its a building class tech) and go near my table she just turns around and walks away and when i go back in the builiding part of the room she goes back to her desk and continue talking...
about 2-3 weeks of avoiding me she starts talking to me again and ive been helping her cut the stuff in the shop cause she cant do it herself cause she isn't good at using the band saw. but nvrmd tat is of topic. so the 10 week class ends and she avoided me in the halls unlike she used to so wat is going on??? does she like me? dislike me? if u dont have somthing informational to ask just dont post it
2006-09-30 03:01:55 · 9 answers · asked by some,random,guy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sounds to me that she is afraid to talk to you before she finds out how you feel. some people need to know first afraid of being hurt. talk to her best friend. she might just be too young to date, sounds like that to me.
2006-09-30 03:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by desert_kats 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Two Options here
1- She does like you, but after yr response to her friends, she thinks you don't like her back.... and doesn't want to get into a discussion about it (don't blame her, friends do that sort of thing all the time without talking about it xD)
2- She was using you to get a gradfe. But from what else you've discribed I think that's unlikely
Conclusion: Try to talk to her about it- and if she continues avoiding you, talk to her friends!
2006-09-30 11:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by delusionalenigma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's called PLAYING AROUND. Well, i assume you like her too as you've gone to he extent of posting yr question! If that is the case, since you do not know if she has a bf, why dont you just go up to her and strike up a conversation?
Also, since she has been avoiding you, you might as well try and be friends first. Its the base of any relationship!
Good luck :)
2006-09-30 11:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are always afraid to confront the guy directly about this kind of thing. you REALLY screwed it up by telling her friend "she can ask me herself" because if she HAD the courage to ask you herself, she would have.
Also, you fail to mention if you have those feelings for her or not. That would really help us tell you what to do.
I would guess she likes you, or else she wouldnt be avoiding you.
2006-09-30 12:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by trainboy765 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like her you need to own up to your feelings and tell her... since you won't let her know she probably thinks your not secre enough with yourself to have a steady relationship which gives her mixed feelings and your kind of sending her mixed signals.. you like her yet you won't tell her... obviously she likes you if her friend approached you with a ? like that ... be a man and just tell her or ask her out on a date .. If ur the shy type maybe you can get one of your buddies to talk to her... I hope this helps but i don't know what to tell you other than this..
2006-09-30 10:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the "friend" is not relaying the message correctly. Maybe she really likes you too. So she is lying to the other girl. Think about it.
2006-09-30 10:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by lucy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should approach her, she probably is trying to play hard to get and is waiting for you to ask her. This is the only way you will find out.
2006-09-30 10:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and ask her why she's been avoiding you and ignoring you. It can start off conversation.
2006-09-30 10:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i did that once, its because she has feelings for you and another guy or she likes u and has a bf
im positive
2006-09-30 11:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋