2006-09-30 02:59:32 · 38 answers · asked by rebeldina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep your friends and family close by and on speed dial so when you need talk to someone or just let it all out you can. Dont keep it bottled up. The more you talk about it and let your sadness and frustrations out the sooner you will start feeling better. I know this sounds corny but what doesnt heals us makes us stronger. Obviously this person wasnt the one for you your soul-mate is still out there looking for you. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-30 03:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Aries Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Broken hearts are so hard to heal because only time heals them...here's my suggestion...try your best to not to think about it...it was obviously not meant to be...your true love is out there...you just have to be patient...try to do things that you have fun with...hang with your friends...it's much better to have friends, parents, or other relatives...so you don't have to be alone...when you are alone you tend to think about all the good things about the relationship and get very sad...other's give you a non biased opinion and help you remember the bad times and how this might be the best thing for you...it's time to concentrate on you now...remember you are the most importand...so, take your time and mend your heart...but at the same time you have to live for you and experience everything the world has to offer...good luck...I wish I could take away your pain but only you could do that.
2006-09-30 03:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by claudeward49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in denial about it, learn from it. Give time to grieve better now than later.
Discover the reality of the relationship, your issues, your partners issues use it to work out what you don't want in another relationship. Try and identify any baggage that you built up out of the relationship and work out how to shed it.
Find out what you want in a relationship, use real relationships of couples you admire as a guide to what you want for yourself and your life.
Make peace with your ex and the ex relationship.
You were responsible for the broken heart, you gave your heart away in the first place, just to the wrong person. It's ok you are no doubt a very beautiful and loving person, love yourself and forgive yourself for making this mistake this time and nuture yourself to build up your strength so that you can love again.
so to summarise
0) grive for as long as you need to
1) remember the reality
2) make peace with the whole situation
3) remember what you have learned and what you don't want in your next relationship
4) find out what you want, do your research
5) love yourself, forgive yourself and nuture yourself
6) build your strength to love again
7) find a relationship that will be stronger and more satisfing than the last, you will find it, just have confidence, it will happen when you least expect.
Good luck,
2006-10-01 02:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what the broken heart is from did you get a divorce or just end a realtionship? if you just got a divorce than it is going to take time thats the same case if you just ended a realtionship. The only difference is that when you are married that is a sacred bond between two people and you will feel lonely for a while but it will heel when you least expect it to. one day without even thinking you will find someone and that someone will sweep you off your feet.. i hope i helped a little and good luck healling that broken heart.
2006-09-30 04:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by mla_forver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry...enable all of it out. do no longer repress nor suppress any of the damage and tear. there is also the biggest aspect to shop in ideas: look after your social existence. even although you're coping with the damage and tear, be particular you do not turn someone or anybody right into a soggy shoulder, really someone your age. A make sure or a relied on man or woman is sturdy for this variety of speaking and sharing. yet once you connect your friends, smile and enjoy their company. in case you talk continuously about your damage, many human beings will start up to stay away from you. that type of heartache can change right into a fashion to get interest. previous wounds are frequently re-opened through the depressed man or woman themselves and they often ask your self, "Why am I continually so blue?" Even worse, some puerile human beings will administration a weak man or woman for his or her self-in touch needs. "i understand the thanks to make you sense extra ideal." and (over a era of time) the doleful man or woman will change into so grateful for the confirmation that their barriers will be crossed and violated.
2016-11-25 03:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something to take your mind off the sadness. I like the movie Under the Tuscan Sun, as this is exactly what you should do when your heart is torn from your chest. Go on a holiday, see a run down house you like, buy it on impulse, fix it up, and make lots of new friends along the way. Who knows, you may even fall in love again.
2006-09-30 03:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by sangheilizim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my g/f and i parted after 2 years back in May. In all honesty as much as the old cliches suck thay are true. Time heals, it may take a while but you'll get there. memories are a great thing but remember that life is for living. sleeping around wont help.. physically may feel good but when your done and at home on your own it'll make you feel even more alone
2006-09-30 06:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has had a broken heart at some time or another,right now it seems like the end of the world,but it's not, time heals, and distance with the person who hurt you.keep busy and help other's who are less fortunate than you will take your mind off you.
2006-09-30 03:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl who are you telling? IF you find an answer please share... But what I am finding that is ok for the moment is time.. Regroup... Find things that mean somethign to you... you have to start to live for your self and not for that other party... But one thing that is making this easy for me is my niece... I love her dearly and I really found an interest in her life... So I live to make sure that my little sister can provide to make her a great life.. and in time I am finding it a little easier to wake up in the morning... He is still on my mind, but it's not a I miss him thinking... it's I want to make him pay... and because I can feel the Rage in my soul I know that my healing is coming soon... because the things that we go through we really don't need.... Good luck girl and if you need someone to talk to, who knows how you feel... you can IM me at shondalilbit69 (AIM screen name)
2006-09-30 03:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain will lesses with time, in the period while it is still hurting, get active in as many other activies as you can, the more you stay busy the less time you will have to hurt, allow your self a day or two of just crying then get up and take action.
2006-09-30 03:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋