hes pretty straight i guess, but everyonce in awhile i see him checking me out, and then when i look back at him he quickly moves his eyes away. what does that mean? is he gay? i mean hes 13 and im 14 so idk. he has a gf so idk
2006-09-30 02:54:19 · 14 answers · asked by Zac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You need to learn the signals. Straight boys check each other out, just to see what the competition is for the available girls.
When a guy is checking you out because he's interested, and you look back at him, he won't look away, he'll hold your gaze.
This guy isn't gay - move on and find a cute guy who is.
2006-09-30 05:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he is straight and just happens to find you attractive. He could just be experimenting with the idea. Guys's don't admit it most of the time but at times guys that are straight will find other guys attractive. Women have the same thing but are a little more open about it... Usually. Sexuality can be a confusing thing for young people. Don't worry unless he goes to you and says he's gay... then in which case nicely tell him you are not interested but would still stay friends with him.
2006-09-30 10:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing...don't assume anything about other people and their motives for anything. I have lived a very long time and I STILL cannot make that decision if someone is gay or straight. And NEVER say anything like this to your friends...rumors are very ugly and have a way of coming back on you...you don't need this stuff in your life. Be nice to all and you will have friends. Good luck
2006-09-30 10:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it. If he is gay, and he wants to approach you, he will eventually. If he does approach you, just be cool about it, and say that you don't get down like that. Don't be mean to him though, he might just think you're cute or something...which should make you feel good knowing that people think you're attractive.
2006-09-30 09:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by detroitkid17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to go out with him, why do you care?
I mean this kindly.
If he has a g/f, he is probably straight, or is trying to be.
If you want to spend more time with him, ask him to do stuff with you (minus the g/f). See what he says.
If he prefers the g/f, let it go.
If you are straight, yourself, why do you care what he is?
Let him look at you, or anything he wants, and go about your business. If he asks you out, say (politely), "No, thanks."
Hope this helps! :-))
2006-09-30 09:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by zen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you are too young to think like this, and since he hasn't yet had an erection any connection would be a little pointless. I would suggest that you carry on with your studies, and persue a career as a doctor (or lawyer). Only then will you meet the guy of your dreams and trust me when I say your love shall be legendary!. God has spoken!.
2006-09-30 09:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't sweat the small stuff Zac. At your age, nobody knows what they are. Maybe you should ask yourself whether you think you might be gay, and if the answer is yes...............then....so what???? It ain't a problem.
2006-09-30 10:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by lou b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be at least bisexual. He might just be unsure of himself. Usually at that age it is difficult to understand what your hormones are doing to you. Just take it easy. Nice and slow now.
2006-09-30 09:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by sangheilizim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why worry about it maybe he thinks your are some think to aspire to but if he nakes a move on you then just tell him you are not interested
2006-09-30 10:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you gay? must be at least curious about it if he's playing on your mind. stop worrying about him and think of where you are at with your own stuff
2006-09-30 09:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋