my friend is really pregnant and she to scared to tell her parents. but is right to keep it a secret from her parents. i've been telling her to tell her parents but she scared about what they might think of her. p.s the girl really is my friend and its not me no way.
2006-09-30 02:42:18 · 24 answers · asked by princessmandy111 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, let her do it. They will eventually find out.
2006-09-30 02:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she think she can hide it forever? Didn't think so. She needs to just be honest, and tell them so they can come up with a gameplan of whether or not to keep the baby. If she's young, adoption might be a good option, but it takes time to get it all arranged, so the sooner she tells them, the sooner she can plan out her life, and the baby's. Let her do it. You will lose your friend if you tell her parents.
2006-09-30 07:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She definitely needs to tell them herself, but maybe you could stand by her and be with her when she does... either that or she could speak to a school guidance counselor or clergy person who maybe could arrange a "neutral ground" and be there to help ease the situation if her parents will be upset. There's no way for them *not* to find out eventually and she will be better off being upfront with them than lying about it. However, if she's early on, she could take a few days to 'get her ducks in a row' so to speak and be mentally prepared for their reaction and whatever may come after, such as if they are unwilling to support her, she may have to make other living arrangements, etc.
Good luck to both of you and bless you for being a good friend.
2006-09-30 02:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...... If u want 2 keep ur friend she should tell them. The parents will start 2 see signs after a while any way
2006-09-30 02:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mr G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldnt do the dirty work for her...she got in this mess and she needs to own up to it because there is a baby on the way. Of course her parents are going to be mad...But its like anything else you do there only mad for a lil while. She needs to think of clever ideas...on how to tell them. My freind at work was 16 when she found out she was pg and she left a postive test on the table and wrote im sorry on the box......sure her parents came and picked her up but...she told them....i on the other hand just kept asking my mom pg questions like...Is your breast sore when your pg? and shed be like yeah and im like mmine are really sore...i did this for proably a month when i was almost home from school one day and i was going upstairs and shes like oh my god are you pregnant...lol my mom never listened to a word anyone said so it wasnmt suprising for her not to catch on quickl y and i said no...and then maybe and then proably...and she just sat there then called my dad from work and it was fathers day and my mom told him happy grandparents day...so everyone was not very happy at first you just gotta have your freind hang in there and be there for her no matter what cause people leave your azz when you get pregnant thats for sure....lol goodluck to you two!
2006-09-30 02:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Maybe she just needs your moral support. You can offer to go with her, and then after she tells them, gently slip away so she can have some alone time with her parents. It's better to just get it over with real quick. Tell the Mom first. Dad's sometimes are not as understanding.
2006-09-30 03:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK everyone keeps saying no b/c she needs to take care of it herself, dont do her dirty work, or you'll lose your friend but its not about you, her, or her parents--- ITS ABOUT THE BABY----- someone needs to tell her parents, because there are a ton of things that need to be done to insure the health of the baby. I mean give me her parents number and I'll tell them b/c both of you sound too young to take care of this by yourselves!
2006-09-30 03:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by anniemc84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it might be scary, and her parents might be upset, they really need to know so that they can help make sure she gets the help that she needs. They especially need to know earlier rather than later if she is thinking of keeping the baby. Everyone will need time to prepare.
2006-09-30 02:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and your friend?I would say...NO.Don't tell her parents,don't make her tell them too.When she is in the 3-th month,she won't be able to abort the child.After that she will become fat and her parents will find out.They won't even hit her,because it's not appropriate to hit a pregnant woman.She will deliver the baby and will start her parental life.
2006-09-30 03:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a secret she won't be keeping long.
Why should you be responsible for telling them?
If she thinks she's grown up enough to make a child, then the job of telling the rents is hers.
2006-09-30 03:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by apinkfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Do not tell her parents for her, you will end up without a best friend.
2006-09-30 02:50:34 · answer #11 · answered by moonsister_98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋