My new bf is Italian really good looking, kind, gentle, protective,caring, and respectful to my parents and me but seems to treat me on occasion as a piece of property most recently in front of all his male friends he grabed my butt and the entire time we were there with them he could not seem to take his hands off me. I felt really uncomfortable with this and he also does not like me hanging out with too many other guys or going to partys without him their. He says i am too trusting and naive with people we did have a situation with a male friend off mine who hit one me while drunk and my bf went crazy broke the guys nose!
2006-09-30 02:26:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I really like him in all things other than this
2006-09-30 02:27:24 · update #1
I am 18 yrs old and he is 20
2006-09-30 02:29:55 · update #2
GET OUT NOW !!!! If you don't leave now, I PROMISE you will end up being abused by him for years to come.
2006-09-30 02:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be very protective of you, which is good in some ways, but not in others! If you feel uncomfortable you need to express your feelings. A spouse is someone your supposed to feel comfortable with, not someone to be scared of!! I think you need to show him the door and move on in life to find someone who you have things in common with!! Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a b/f who acts like your dad??I was in a relationship like this for about 4 years!
2006-09-30 09:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself. If it doesn't feel right to you for him to touch you in intimate places in public, insist that he doesn't. It's your body. He is probably proud to haveyou as his girl but he is acting like a child. Hold his hand, let him put his arm around your waist, perhaps touch you intimately when no one is looking, but not in front of others. Don't let him own you. Don't lose your own identity just to please him. Do let him protect you if someone else is disrespecting you.
2006-09-30 09:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry,, he is just hanging a sign on you for all to see that reads "sorry, but this one is spoken for, go find your own"
Normally a sign of immaturity
2006-09-30 09:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by tom l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Could Be That He Is Just Jealous
2006-09-30 09:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the one thing you don't like about him is a red flag.he's crazy and will probably hurt someone else and that could end up being you. run run run.
2006-09-30 09:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him while you still can! I found myself in two relationships like yours, don't stay with him!
2006-09-30 09:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by lyleanme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready for a life of domestic violence.
2006-09-30 09:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Here I am 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest talk to him about this calmly...tel him u feel humiliating, tel him u like everything about him...except for this.
i dont know any other way.
i never had this kinda problems.
2006-09-30 09:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds very very posessive, danger alert...hes parading you around like a trophy.....how sad......sorry im glad im not with him even if he has the looks and blah blah blah....you can do so much better.....
2006-09-30 09:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋